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Romantic

The second trait in our series to help distinguish ANR lovers from ANR bashers is romantic inclination/elegance/class. The typical ANR fan is an idealist. In everything, this person wants the ultimate and can be considered an extremist, at least in some positive ways. When it comes to love, he/she doesn’t believe in half jobs, it’s all or nothing.…

Stuck in a marriage that lacks an ANR

I’d like to begin by acknowledging my inability to relate. In fact, I’m creating this post not to pretend to have the solutions but to solicit counsel from anyone with godly wisdom, because some of our brothers and sisters in Christ find themselves in this very situation. What do you do if one of your…

Adventurous

Welcome to the first in a series of seven posts that characterize the ultimate lover of Adult Nursing Relationships. On a particular ANR dating site, roughly 65% of female users indicated an interest in travel. It was the second most cited interest, coming behind music and barely ahead of dining. Other sources, especially ANR blogs, also support…

When to bring it up to a potential mate

I don’t think there’s a consensus within the ANR community. Personally, I don’t waste time. I’m completely convinced that an ANR is a huge blessing, so I’m upfront about it. My general principle is first or second date depending on how well we appear to get along, and if she’s an online prospect then it’s always the…

How to bring it up to a potential mate

Ultra cautiously. First, to maximize your chances of succeeding, only pursue/be pursued by the type of Christian that’s highly likely to say yes.  For guys, it means aiming for the soft, nurturing girl. If you see no signs of feminine softness in her, you’re likely to be wasting your time and hers. Ladies, your best bet is…

The danger of ANR: Biblical ANR hero gone bad

Note: ANR in itself isn’t dangerous, our sinful hearts pose the real danger. While browsing through ANR dating profiles, I came across a woman I’ll never forget. She was very attractive physically, and also one of the handful of modestly dressed women on both websites on which I spotted her. And we have some things in…

The ANR lover’s profile: how to tell if she (or he) would almost certainly say yes

This summer, I began a weekly series of posts in which I drew on my 200 or so hours of research to describe the woman who fits the profile of the typical ANR fan to a tee. Although I focused on profiling the woman that loves ANRs, ladies can also gain valuable insights by applying the masculine…

What the Bible does NOT say about an ANR

1. Think about it more than God. 2. When evaluating a prospective mate, above all else, first consider their ANR potential. Whether or not they have faith in Christ is secondary. 3. ANR is the end all, the ultimate marital superglue. Not even Jesus Christ can strengthen a marriage like it. 4. Date or marry…