Should sex be one of our criteria for selecting a partner?

Preamble: the most important thing to look for in a potential spouse is an authentic testimony of salvation through Jesus Christ.   Seeing as God is very pro-sex, I think the Biblical mandate is to seek a believer to whom you feel some sexual attraction, then strive for purity until marriage. Similarly, if you’re an affectionate person, seek a Christian Continue reading Should sex be one of our criteria for selecting a partner?

Couples Nursing can be a drug

If you’re addicted, seek help. If anything, Scripture praises Couples Nursing, but it can be a double-edged sword, both to the single and desirous, and the married and practicing. Anything of proven therapeutic value can easily lead to psychological dependence. Everything is permissible, but not everything is beneficial. Christian couples have the freedom in Christ to practice Couples Continue reading Couples Nursing can be a drug

More ANR defending

One concern I’ve gotten from a few Christians is that I place a greater emphasis on Adult Nursing Relationships than the Bible does. First and foremost, what I am not defending in this article is my intermittent idolatry. I’m genuinely thankful for the faithful believers who have called me out when I’ve gotten sinfully distracted by this desire. I’ve Continue reading More ANR defending

There is no other Name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved

And that Name above all names isn’t ANR. Some religions preach Christ AND good works, others add to that Christ AND Mary, some others just preach Joseph Smith. Christ-centered ANR declares: Christ alone. Only Jesus saves, Couples Nursing doesn’t. An ANR is optional, my mission is only to show Christian couples how beautiful and marriage-enhancing it is. Of Continue reading There is no other Name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved

Lord, give us boldness to come out of the taboo closet

The Bible point-blank encourages ANRs but most people find them taboo. This adds to the intimidation one faces when coming out to a partner, family or friends about ANR desire. I don’t get how even believers do this when there’s no clear biblical prohibition against it. I’ve found some ANR skeptics who claim that if Continue reading Lord, give us boldness to come out of the taboo closet

If an ANR becomes your life, chop it off and throw it away

27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better Continue reading If an ANR becomes your life, chop it off and throw it away