What she stands to gain/how would this serve her?

A few believers with neither a real understanding nor appreciation of Couples Nursing have expressed concern of selfishness on my part for wanting this relationship. It’s very disappointing that if you’re a man who has a desire that’s in any way sexual, people immediately conclude that you’re being a typical horny and selfish male, oblivious to the fact that this particular desire is very gender balanced.

In light of this unfair accusation, and the fact that one major reason God gave us sex is to selflessly serve our spouse, I thought it appropriate to list some ways in which I would be serving my wife if we engaged in an Adult Nursing Relationship:

  1. I would be validating her femininity.
  2. More than that, I’d be increasingly drawing out her God-given womanly instincts.
  3. She’d have a stronger marriage.
  4. She would be more relaxed and at ease.
  5. I’d be helping her develop more of a servant’s heart.
  6. She’d feel valuable, needed, and beautiful in a non-superficial, natural and biblical way.
  7. I would offer an easy way to lose calories.
  8. She would be uniting deeply with her husband.
  9. Tongue in cheek on this one. She’d have bigger breasts without surgery.
  10. I’d be taking her heart off materialism and unto deeper things.
  11. It improves her health as it forces her to be a lot more mindful of everything she ingests.
  12. I would be MUCH less inclined to leaving my wife home alone for prolonged periods because my conscience won’t be at ease knowing she’d experience physical pain were such negligence to occur.
  13. The nipple stimulation would bring her so much pleasure she could have multiple orgasms.
  14. I’d give her a rare perspective on the gospel and Christ’s intimate union with His Bride.

Trust me, none of the above is made up. They all come from lots of research, including things ANR-interested women themselves have said. That Couples Nursing is equally desired by men and women is enough to acquit me from any charges of self-centeredness.

It’s not about me. It’s not about her. It’s about us. For the glory of Christ.


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  1. Snowflake

    If I may be so bold to ask….
    Pray for those of us who are trying to come to the Lord with ANR/ABF already known and tasted in our lives.Trying to fight our old ways of sin and change ourselves to a Proverbs 31 Woman.
    For myself, the thought of submitting to a husband ever again sends shutters down my spine. I have experienced so many of the things you mentioned that are benefits to a woman. Pray for me to focus on the joys it would bring to the Lord to participate in this treasured gift between a husband and wife. To learn and embrace a submissive heart and mind to a man of God.
    Thank you for considering this prayer request.


  2. Prov519

    You’re very welcome. Through the Cross of Christ alone, you can be transformed into the Proverbs 31 woman. He’ll take you as you are and then change you from the inside out. There’s no sin too great for His blood to wash away if we confess, for He is faithful and just to forgive and cleanse us. I’ll definitely keep you in my prayers.


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