A Christian site for women once polled its readers on what they want most from their husbands, apart from sex. In order of popularity, the results were: His time Communication Non-sexual touching According to many CN-practicing women, Couples Nursing gives them all of the above and amazing sex. Another intriguing fact, I learned this in high school sex ed: if given two … Continue reading What women want
Question: would you and your partner enter into an ANR? “No but while I was still lactating I was in a pumping Moms group and LOTS of the people in there would let their husbands do it. Mind has no interest and I don’t either but it’s actually more common than you’d think. I was … Continue reading It’s more common than you realize
The first one isn’t quite a personal but a response to a question I had asked via email. Using biblical wisdom, google some of these ANR dating profile posts to corroborate their authenticity. “What are my reasons for wanting ANR within marriage? Sex within marriage is basically a way for a husband and wife to … Continue reading My favorite ANR personals, all from female seekers
Question: would you and your partner enter into an ANR? Not going to lie.. during sex, [I] started leaking and it got in my husband … and freaked us both out but he actually liked it. I never full on nursed him but whatever floats your boat and if it’s needed then yeah go for it. Human milk … Continue reading Open-minded but not committed
Question: would you and your partner enter into an ANR? Answers and reasons follow. “O____o noooo! Lol . I clicked on this since I didn’t know what it was and if interesting we could try it… Definitely interesting (& a bit odd) but not for me!” “I have heard of this before, and no I … Continue reading Reasons for ANR avoidance
Many of my favorites are below. Using biblical discretion, google some of these to see I’m not making them up. “My husband and I are in our sixties. I breastfed our children and because of social conditioning it never crossed our minds for him to [enjoy] the gift of my breasts. Five years ago we … Continue reading Reviews and testimonials, mostly from female ANR enthusiasts
1 Corinthians 1: Now in response to the matters you wrote[a] about: “It is good for a man not to have relations with[b] a woman.”[c] 2 But because sexual immorality is so common,[d] each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband. 3 A husband should fulfill his marital responsibility to … Continue reading Do not deprive each other: Praise God for sex!
You weep over your sin because of the sin, not because of the holy and righteous God it offends. You prioritize your thought life over your spiritual life. You vehemently disagree with this statement: “there needs to be a fair amount of primal, sexual and physical attraction between a man and woman who are considering … Continue reading Purity might have become your idol if…
Salvation is a position, not a feeling. When is purity an idol if God’s eyes are too pure to look at evil (Hab. 1:13)? Three years ago, I shared a house with a number of roommates, all Christian guys. Incidentally, when implicitly discussing certain ‘intimate desires’ of mine with the house, one of the roommies counseled … Continue reading When Purity Becomes an Idol
To show that ANRs are very gradually becoming more popular, here’s an up to date record of the number of heterosexual profiles on ANRSpace: 6,346 members. A month ago, there were 6,370 members, a 0.4% month-over-month decrease, or 0.8 fewer members daily. Interesting. Our first ever decrease in 10 months. I think I know exactly why that … Continue reading Monthly ANRSpace member tally
I have a friend from Minnesota who has been influential in my walk. When new to the Christian faith, he once reminded me how being Christian doesn’t mean we must change our personalities. “If you’ve always liked a certain style of shirts”, he said, “you don’t have to change styles after conversion.” I’ve never seen … Continue reading Couples Nursing is a love language, not a fetish
“Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting Me?” But why didn’t Jesus ask “why are you persecuting my church”? We see the same theme repeated here: “When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, then he will sit on his glorious throne. 32 Before him will be gathered all … Continue reading Christ loves the Church so much He refers to her as if He’s inseparably united to her
“Surely, I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” – Jesus Christ Christian, His Spirit is in you and His arms are around you right this instant, even as you read this.