Reviews and testimonials, mostly from female ANR enthusiasts

Many of my favorites are below. Using biblical discretion, google some of these to see I’m not making them up.

I love breastfeeding my husband. When I first asked him if he was interested, he was so excited. We stopped for a while because life got in the way. During that time, my depression worsened and I was considering talking to my doctor about changing prescriptions. Instead, we started breastfeeding again. My depression has greatly improved. So has my libido. We’re having a wonderful time and we’re as close as ever. I wonder why it’s not talked about in mental health circles. Oxytocin does wonders for the mood.”

— DeeDee “ABF/ANR is my complete passion. It is wired somewhere deep inside of me. Even while pumping I experience the “let-down” feeling. I sometimes ponder why or how the term “let-down” ever got associated with breastfeeding. It usually means disappointment or hurt. The exact opposite occurs when I nurse someone.
The breastfeeding “let-down” is a very familiar feeling to me, yet it is so hard to describe. I remember feeding my son. He sucked and wiggled and sucked some more coaxing the milk out. After a few brief moments, I would feel the fullness – almost an ache – my breasts seemed heavy and ready to flow. Then the change in his breathing as he slowly began drinking in with long, slow gulps, in utter peace and abandonment.
I have looked down at both of my kids and adult men, as I cradled them against my body; as I stroked their soft, sweet skin, I felt the overwhelming release of love. Which to me, is what “let-down” really is.”

“My wife and I have been married for almost 30 years, and just within the last year or so discovered that having an ANR has done amazing things for our marriage. At first I was a little shy to ask her, because I didn’t want her to think less of me as a man. But I had always had a longing to suckle her, so I did ask, and we started slowly, just a little at a time. Over the next few months, she started lactating, and we both grew very comfortable with her nursing me once, sometimes twice a day. What this time has done for our marriage, has been nothing short of incredible. Nursing relaxes me and fills me with such intense feelings of love for her … and her for me. We feel closer than ever, and she’s had some of the most intense orgasms that she has ever had … at age 53, and after almost 30 years of marriage. I honestly have enjoyed nursing more than I ever imagined possible, and the closeness is life changing. Even if sex does not follow, the sweet closeness we enjoy is far beyond what words could ever express. I am not exaggerating when I say that I have come to love this wife of mine so deeply, and feel more connected to her than I ever dreamed. I tease her some mornings, after we’ve been together … “Ok, well, I don’t need breakfast today … ” … she produces a lot. I understand that the whole idea of a man nursing from his wife may seem unpleasant, “gross” or “icky” to some. It may seem very “unmasculine” to others. I get it. But if you let other people’s views, or your own preconceived ideas keep you from trying it … you may miss out on something incredible. I am a very masculine man, not effeminate in any way, and nursing from my beloved .. has done absolutely nothing to diminish that. I am so thrilled that my love offers herself to me, and that she delights in how I enjoy her. Every time I think “this cannot possibly get any better” .. it does.
Yes, I am addicted to my wife, and her to me. Tell me again how this is bad? 🙂”

Erica says:
Aug 29, 2018

“I bet it’s a very
beautiful and loving

Dave says:
Oct 10, 2018

“Erica, it’s heavenly …
we’re so in tune, it’s
crazy good. She offers
herself to me daily,
and even if I am
exhausted, saying no
is something I can’t
bear to do. The
intimacy keeps
increasing … haha ..
along with the milk

“My husband and I are in our sixties. I breastfed our children and because of social conditioning it never crossed our minds for him to [enjoy] the gift of my breasts. Five years ago we began enjoying longer periods of foreplay before sex-and because my husband has always enjoyed my breasts … Eventually I began producing milk and boy did his interest sky rocket and my joy of gift giving fulfilled . Because we are retired we have the time to have … sessions 4-6 times per day and when we are busy every 12 hours work just fine. We never saw it as him being a submissive husband, a baby, a child, only a very special time of snuggling and bonding. This special bonding has taken our long marriage to a higher level of intimacy. It hasn’t surplanted sex just made our marriage more meaningful. Perhaps it is just the right thing for an older couple to finish out their lives-instead of what we see as older couples finishing out their lives in a platonic relationship, sleeping in front of the ball game, sweeping the sidewalk, and watching the wheel of fortune-and it makes sense that after nursing babies that breasts-instead of just hanging around atrophying for the rest of the marriage, and mine have completely rejuvenated to young and fruitful breasts – might have an added bonus for a marriage.

Reveling in the gift of pure being”

“My wife and I are [most definitely non-Christians] and in an active ANR, and as others have stated, there is nothing that I have ever found that has brought down the barriers between 2 people like this has. No secrets, no lies, the bonds have only gotten stronger and we have grown so close it defies explanation. For any and all downsides, the upside is enormous. Plus, it’s a turn on for both of us that she nourishes me every day.”

“My husband and I are just beginning this journey with relactation . I know that I personally find a very bonding experience. Beyond the definite sexual stimulation I receive the intimacy is wonderful. This is a beautiful God given gift.”

“my husband discovered the milk through our lovemaking and began tasting just a little at first. It made me feel so close to him and him to me…..a new connection between us. Now we have nursing sessions once or twice a week, those sessions release hormones in me that make me feel euphoric and it relaxes him in ways I’ve never seen. Plus it’s something only between the two of us. I like to think I am producing the milk for him so we can get closer still. I have no other explanation and no desire for any other relationship than with him.”

“She doesn’t look at it as me becoming an infant to her, but as part of her surrendering her body to me.”

“At first I viewed it as ‘those are for my children now’ (which is why we hadn’t done it in previous pregnancies/postpartum), but once I agreed to give it a try I found I really enjoy it. I have never seen it as my husband being infant like or less of a leader in our house, but more as another way to surrender myself to him and share my body with him in a newer and different way. Since for many women nipple stimulation can be sexually arousing, especially with those oxytocin releases, I think that is the big appeal for the female perspective…plus, yes, men like breasts so playing with them is fun for him.”

“Absolutely yes and yes … My husband and I have had an ANR for almost 2 months now and it has brought us so much closer.”

“My wife and I are into ANR … It is the most romantic and intimate experience for both of us that either one of us has ever experienced. She tells me repeatedly that she has never felt closer to anyone as she does to me. We have both acknowledged that had we done this in our prior marriages that we most likely would have not gone through a divorce. The nursing forces us to spend time together regardless how busy or tired that we may be. And it has also led to some of the greatest sex for both of us as well. I really can’t say enough good about ANR.”

– Robert S., August 25, 2015

“There are so many people with so many taboos that they really don’t experience a true and natural life. Adult breastfeeding is common in some countries. Not so much in the United states. But it is growing in popularity because of the benefits it has to offer. It is even encouraged in some areas of the bible.
I am vary supportive of Adult Nursing Relationships or Adult Breastfeeding Relationships. There are several reasons why people are in to ANR/ABR. Everyone is different and so are there reasons. Some are into it for the health benefits and some for the emotional or the intimacy. Some just for the sexual stimulation and so on…
Most men (if any) do not [nurse] in the same way as an infant. But we men can still … give pleasure … As far as clogged milk ducts and infections from a man … this is not necessarily true. I know of several women who have lactated for several years for there spouse without any problems.
ANR/ABR does not necessarily mean a woman is lactating. In a lot of ANR/ABR relationships, there is no lactation. They are in it for the intimacy it has to offer.
Most are not in to the mommy-baby role playing ether.
ANR/ABR is not for everyone. Some women do not get any pleasure from it just as some men are not into breasts.
Too each there own. It is a personal thing.
you can reference all this by Googling:
• Benefits of Adult Breastfeeding or Adult Nursing
• Adult breastfeeding relationships
• Adult nursing relationships”

“I think ANR ensures that you spend quality time with each other.”

“Thank you! ☺️I love it. It’s the most amazing, intimate experience.”

“As a deeply committed Christian woman, who is very loving I [see] ANR as a natural, profound gift to share in the most devoted of relationships.”

“I simply enjoy the [intimacy], closeness, soothing & erotic aspect that nursing brings.”

“Yes and yes. I am currently in an ANR with my husband. We enjoy every ounce of it. It has brought us closer together in more ways than can verbally be said. And I get the added benefit of having larger breasts without surgery!”

“I firmly believe that ANR/ABF is the closest that to humans can be.
Unlike some, I don’t believe that ANR/ABF is a fetish or a “tool” to reach an end goal.
I believe that it is a choice.. a way of being.
for partners to grow and build an ever stronger, closer bond WITH each other. It’s truly an incredible experience and everyone has their own unique feelings about it. For me, breast feeding is not just erotic. It’s a healthy physical, as well as emotional experience for both. [It] is so incredibly fulfilling … You relax and open yourself to the wonderful experience … You know he is feeding on part of you and it creates an intense pleasure and deep inner connection. Deeply intimate. It’s a connection that can’t be expressed well with words, but it makes you feel vibrant and fulfilled. You feel warm and glowing all over. Just like when clean clothes are freshly removed from the dryer and you wear them or hold them close. An indescribable warmth and feeling of peaceful relaxation. You feel so soothed and serene it’s almost as if you’re weightless, gently floating in time and space … you wish this blissful moment could last forever. You know it can’t, but the future holds many more, so you surrender to the moment and gently drift off into a serene heavenly sleep. Think about the excitement when you start to produce milk. Your breasts will become healthier, larger, fuller, and more beautiful. You feel a pervasive warm glow from your breasts. They make you feel so good, you ache to [use them]. You yearn to have … your soothing rich essence drawn out from [you] into [him]. Watching him feed from you makes you feel incredible. The feeling can be so intense it can be indescribable. You feel a connection deep down to the core of your being, a connection that is so beautiful and natural.”

“Yess…I agree it is an opportunity to bond. However I also find that the intamacy and closeness, the sensuality … is VERY stimulating and erotic. this can be … a BEAUTIFUL way to [come] together!!”


“I for one always love how it feels. It builds bond, love and emotions … Its nature … simply enjoy it.”

“It all started when i had just delivered my baby. I had engorged breasts early morning three days after my delivery. It was really painful and my breasts were swollen and hard like rock. I was crying out of pain. Both me and my husband tried to manually express the milk out but it was of little help. I was yet to buy a breast reliever then. And it was too early in the morning to visit the doctor’ s clinic. finally my husband had to suck out the milk himself from my breasts. It was of great relief. And it continued for the next few weeks. He would normally feed on at bedtime after the baby falls asleep. And repeat the same before going out for work and after coming back. And would sometime also fall asleep by my side while nursing. I would always ensure proper hygiene and wash my breasts properly after every time my husband puts his mouth and before feeding my baby. I never had an engorgement again after that except on one occasion when my husband was out the the town for three days, when my baby was around 12 weeks old. My baby is almost seven months now and I am yet to get back my periods. My husband is still performing his job loyally and to his full satisfaction and mine. I have started giving semi-solid food to my baby now but plan to breastfeed him till he become two years old. Both me and my husband are enjoying the new bond. It feels really nice to nourish both of them with my milk. We have resumed our sex-life 8 weeks after my delivery which was a C-section. And the milk always adds spice to our sex life. Though we have never discussed, I would love to continue to feed my husband even after weaning my baby and as long as I can.”

“What a beautiful, intimate thing to share with someone you love and hope to live a long and healthy life with.”

“I let my husband try one night when I was too full and baby was asleep. We both enjoyed it and have continued.”

“… it opened a pandora’s box of pleasure and intimacy we hadn’t had before in our marriage. Even though we couldn’t do anything (I had my baby a little over a week ago) we grew closer together in that time, and we both benefited from it. So go ahead, if your husband is curious let him taste it. It could be an eye opening experience for you both.”

“I am a woman who loves to nurse men. I haven’t heard or read too much about this and I was wondering if this is something men like. I was in a long marriage and breastfed my child and my husband loved it so i continued after I weaned my daughter. He nursed before work and came home from lunch to [nurse] and then after work. If he was having a stressful day he would come home and nurse for awhile and return to his job. It was a part of my life for 10 years. I am now divorced and hate to give up this sensual and erotic part of my life. How do I bring it up when I am dating someone … Any suggestions or comments would be appreciated. It was an intimate loving act between two consenting adults. I don’t want to nurse just anyone, but that special someone. It’s a very lovingand profound experience, a connection with your mate, a bond with your mate that resembles, but not entirely of course, the bond you create with your infant when you nurse. It is not always a sexual act.”

“For me, being able to nurse someone is almost unexplainable, but the best way I know how to describe it is: yes, there’s eroticism involved because breastfeeding an adult is still primarily taboo in mainstream society … But really, the biggest thing for me (being the altruist that I am) is the idea of caring for someone and nurturing them in a way that no one else in their life does or could. The idea that they’re gaining sustenance from something I’m providing from my body as nature intended breasts to be used for.”

“I personaly dont find anything wrong with this, my husband has been drinking my milk off and on for almost 6 years now and let me tell you he has never once gotten sick…. we all got food poisoning and he didnt get sick its amazing how brest milk works 🙂 Good luck and have fun :)”

“I encourage ANY woman that wants a closer and more connected bond between her partner to let them [nurse] if they so want to. My husband and I are mature, professional adults with grown, out-of-the-house children. After a stressful day at work we look forward to the relaxation and bonding … We’ve induced my lactation after many years of the ‘wells being dry’ so to speak. The let-down sensation of my milk and its’ effects on both of us is much better than trying to relax with an alcoholic beverage at the end of the day. Much healthier too!! As suckler stated above ‘it’s not always about sex.”

“My husband and I have had an anr relationship for about 3 years now. We have never been closer or happier. We are truly enjoy[ing] spending time together. After 25 years of marriage our friends wonder what our secret is. We usualy do it before bed … it has given us a deep connection.”

“My husband loves my milk. It is a bond like no other. with him I don’t have to pretend that BFing isn’t erotic. I will nurse him until my breasts can not make milk any more.
The bond is amazing before doing this I was considering leaving him for other reasons. ohh Mangos & Pineapples make your milk sweeter! :)”

“I am actually a lactating mom, and my husband does nurse from me. It is actually extremely comforting and usually puts me to sleep. It started when my baby got sick and could not breastfeed for about a week (had feeding tube in hospitAl). My breast got engorged and it hurts to pumps. So he provided me with relief in a more gentler way. Since then it’s been a loving comfort like holding hands or cuddling in bed.”

“I look at giving my milk as a gift to show my devotion.”

“… Wow! Is all I can say once you have experienced this. There is no greater bond as a woman to be able to give in such a tender, erotic, sexy, loving way. We are so blessed to have milky breasts no matter what the size. I can only speak from my experience and what a miracle to see my milk increase to my partner’s demand. The size of the breast does not determine the amount of milk … As your warm love releases into him, the sweetness of the taste, the flow of the spray, and the nutrition of milk are almost certain to send him into bliss. You will both begin to throb together and it will leave you both wanting more. This is my promise. Men if you are not into it then you are being closed minded and limiting yourself to experiencing a real joy and women if you are not producing by enough stimulation then you need to give in to more intimate time together to open up to receiving the bliss nature intended for you to have in your life. I believe this is the ultimate form of love making when you can be so in tune with one another for mutual sharing you reach levels of love that are truly blessings. Enjoy and bliss on!”

“Breastfeeding my husband has changed us so much – it’s made us calmer, happier people – but it’s also changed our relationship, making us closer, more intimate and more in tune with each other’s needs.”

“…ANR … for me … is nurturing … It is a bonding thing.”

“Is There Anything More Loving? I can not think of a more loving thing to do … I have induced just for him. He knows that the changes he is seeing, the fullness he can sense, the warmth … is all in response to his loving touch … we share the most intimate bond. He’ll even … ensure I do not awaken in the morning feeling too uncomortable. Of course, he spends that precious earliest time in the morning … and I so love that moment. We start our day so bonded together. Nothing we face the rest of the day can seem so bad when we’ve come together so perfectly each morning. I smile when I get that “twinge” during the hour before he’s due home. I take that moment of discomfort and actually find comfort in it, because it is merely my body aching for his return to me … Can you think of a better welcome home tha[n] a loving wife …? no. For all the web discussion of sharing, swaping and such, is there not something rather special about a wife working so very hard to build and maintain a beautiful milk supply that displays itself in a gorgeous pair of blue veined globes that are solely for his pleasure? A gift.”

“I pray that one day it will not be so taboo, and I can openly discuss my loving expression to him. I would love to have the freedom to … nurse him … without any sexual overtones (yes, that ought to be a bit more private due to kiddos) but what is so shameful of … his taking his fill? … My child never nursed, he refused my gift, but my husband waited and then asked if I would consider giving this to him. 8 years after I gave up trying to nurse a child, he lovingly helped me bring in the flow. It is for him, my gift.”

“I love to be available to the one [nursing from] me.”

“ANR is sensual & sharing. Very special and sexual between a man & a woman. Not to be taken lightly. Something to share with heart.”

“Its almost Springtime. Nothing is more intimate than taking a walk in the Springtime woods with your lover. After rounding many bends, we come to a secluded opening just off the main path. Vines surround us, the thin early grass is soft and inviting. You spread out the blanket and help me to a seated position … you join me on the blanket … Looking deep into your eyes … I surrender to you we fulfill each other’s needs for almost an hour, there in the tender Springtime sun.”

I can’t find the quote but one woman said something to the tune of “when he gets on my nerves, I take a deep breath and ask myself ‘why should I be mad at him if in just a little while he’ll be giving me such amazing pleasure?'”, and some women yearn for it much more than their husbands:

“hmm, well I tried with my husband and he QUICKLY declined. I even told him the benefits of having some, but it still didnt matter to him.”

“I always wished that my husband would want to try it, just for the sake of sharing someting so important, beautiful and personal. He is too prim and proper.”

“At least your husband is curious!! My husband thinks breastmilk is gross…and he hasn’t even tried it!!! husband thinks it’s strange. I offered him to taste it but he adamently refused. It’s not poison. And there’s no need to think of it as only for baby.”

“I really.wanted to do this while nursing our daughter, but my husband wouldn’t. He wouldn’t even touch … because they were full of milk. My daughter is going to be 3… maybe I could start to produce again if he would change his mind. I want this so badly. I am very happy that your husband enjoys it because I wish mine did.”

“I am currently breastfeeding and … I am married he has no intrest.”

See also:

Godly ANR dating site desperately needed

My favorite ANR personals, all from female seekers


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  1. Ray

    My heart goes out to the women whose husbands refuse this wonderful gift. We are a society that is obsessed with breasts and we use them to sell everything. But use them for their intended purpose (making milk) and people freak out. I have never been a “macho” male. I have always been tender and loving with women in every relationship I’ve had. Three out of four women brought up the subject of breastfeeding with me. They asked me what I thought of it. I was young and stupid and got embarrassed about it. I never had he courage to tell them that it was something I desired to have.

    Thankfully things are starting to change. With the creatioion of this blog and others people are now discovering the truth. The Jennifer Mulford and Brad Leeson story I believe marks a turning point in the fight to bring couple’s nursing out of the taboo closet. The truth shall set you free!

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  2. Daniel

    My wife (54) and I (52) have just started dry nursing. It wasn’t planned, it just kind of happened. As we went to bed one night I laid my head on her chest and cuddled up to her like I’ve done for 27 years. But this one night I was feeling especially cozy and happy and her nipple was right at the corner if my mouth. I simply took her nipple in and began suckling with no intention of sex. She began to brush her fingers through my hair and caress my face and softly said “I love you.”
    I felt so emotionally and physically close to her during this time and decided to try it again the next night. We are now beginning a routine of suckling at bedtime and I can feel our bond strengthen every day. Last night she told me she’s enjoying our nursing time and that her breasts are always there for me whenever I want them. I have such an awesome wife. I love her, and the intimacy we have is greater than ever before.


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