The first one isn’t quite a personal but a response to a question I had asked via email. Using biblical wisdom, google some of these ANR dating profile posts to corroborate their authenticity.
“What are my reasons for wanting ANR within marriage? Sex within marriage is basically a way for a husband and wife to worship God by fulfilling His original design for sex. I chalk that up to include all acts of intimacy. Sex is not meant to be selfish or one-sided. The husband and wife are looking for ways to please the other without concern for themselves. It is a form of sacrificial love. You want to give your best to your spouse without holding back (just as we should give to God without holding back). For me, the idea of offering my body, and more specifically my breasts, for my husband’s enjoyment is giving him my best. On a selfish level, my husband enjoying my breasts would give me great joy physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually and quite frankly I think it would be thrilling. My husband would be pulling from the very core of my being and I can’t even begin to think how amazing that would feel for us both. I can’t even begin to imagine the intimacy felt in those moments and how I would feel more feminine, and more like a woman in a purely Biblical sense. By nature, I am a nurturing woman and I think being in an ANR would increase those feelings in me and provide almost a sense of healing for my own personal insecurities. I hope my answer made sense.”
“What am I looking for? A man who comes home from a long day of work filled with stress and the worries and frustrations of the day and seeks my full, milky breasts to relax and unwind. A man who lays beside me at night and lets my dripping nipples drift him off to sleep. A man who wakes up and aches to latch on to me as much as I ache for him to suckle away my engorgement. A man who finds comfort and solace between the curved mounds of my chest and craves the taste of my milk. A man who knows there is no sweeter place to be than buried in my breasts drinking from me as I stroke his hair and we lay there in silence. Is that man you?”
“LOVE MY NIPPLES AND AREOLA [BEING WELL ATTENDED TO]. I WILL LET YOU [SUCKLE] FOR THERAPY FROM STRESS, MOMMY ISSUES, ANGER AND ANXIETY, HAPPY, SAD DURING A MOVIE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT, WHENEVER! I AM OBSESSED WITH CRADLING YOUR HEAD AS YOU [SUCKLE] AS LONG AS YOU PLEASE OR LEANING OVER YOU AN LET YOU LAY AND MILK MY BREAST FOR AS LONG AS YOU CAN [SUCKLE]. I WANT [TO BE LEFT] THROBBING WHEN WE’RE DONE.
About your ideal partner:
Someone that enjoys suckling for hours….”
“Currently inducing lactation. I am currently looking for someone to have a relationship with who enjoys nursing and enjoying the bountiful blessings I have to offer on a daily basis when able to. I’m very new to this lifestyle but have found it to be amazingly satisfying.
About your ideal partner:
Mature single male d/f who enjoys the intimacy of anr and is very sensual. Someone who is open to date nights followed by some breastfeeding fun for dessert. Please live in the same city for optimal feeding schedule fun.”
“I have always loved the nurturing connection between a mother and child, and love the fact that i can now share that with someone that seeks the same
About your ideal partner:
I am looking to induce lactation and then breastfeed my partner on a regular basis until he is satisfied”
“I wish to have an anr and serve my partner in this way”
“I‘m a 49 year old black female. I live in … Virginia. My bra size is 40ddd and they are natural breasts! I have no children, never been pregnant and never lactated so this will be a completely new and exciting experience for me! I’ve thought about ANR/ABF relationships for the past 12 years. As time goes by, I seem to think about even more! I’m seeking to create and establish an intense emotional bond with someone who desires the same.My preference is clean cut (no FULL OR LONG beard and relatively short hair).Nice goatees, NEATLY trimmed mustaches or close beards are fine.This does NOT pertain to body hair (i.e. chest,back,groin arm pits). I prefer a man who does NOT shave his body hair. A VERY NEAT ponytail is acceptable!I like the company of a well dressed/neat man;someone who understands that denim, sneakers and a t-shirt are NOT appropriate attire for a nice eatery. I don’t have any hang ups about race or color.Body type is not a concern for me either. I wish to make deep eye contact with you as you suckle. I wish to gently stroke the side of your face as well as your hair as you suckle. I want to see and feel your relaxation and pure pleasure as you suckle … You should possess intelligence and integrity. I love international travel so being able to travel at least once a year is a plus but not a prerequisite. I’m not seeking money because I have my own money and you should too! I’m not looking to be a “sugar mamma”! I enjoy nice things as well as nice people so if you’re not kind and caring please don’t waste our time; look elsewhere! Kind and caring (but not a pushover). … I would like to find someone who wants and needs a few hours a week set aside SOLELY for suckling and emotional bonding.While out in a public setting, I would be able to spot your anxiety (and need for my nipples) and verbally comfort you until we’re able to get to a private place. Upon arriving at a private setting , I would unbutton my shirt and unsnap my NURSING for my most special suckling. I would have no problem with you letting me know if you become anxious or needy for my breasts. In fact, I welcome that! I want you to be able to be open and honest with me about your needs and wants. I’m not looking for sex, however, if you become aroused by/while suckling, you may feel free to … There are so many things I would like to add but that would make this profile far too long. Thank you for taking time to read my profile and best wishes.”
About me: “Funny, easy going, kind. I have a genuine desire to be a great wife. Have never been in an ABF relationship but I’m very interested in that for my future.” About your ideal partner: “Kind, respectful, loves Jesus!”
“Hello Gentleman, I’m updating the details of my profile, giving you a better sense of who I am. I am a voluptuous DD-cup SWF, a blue-eyed brunette who stands 5’6″… I’m DDF & a NS. I am looking for a respectful, faithful, christian gentleman & future husband who has a deep desire for his Proverbs 31:10 wife to feed him daily with her essence. Newly 50yo, everyone still guesses I’m in my late 30’s. I stumbled upon the ANR community as I did further research into becoming a Birth Doula(assists Mom during Childbirth and with Breastfeeding after baby is born). When I told my ex-fiance’ about ANR’s he was very excited to learn of this deep bonding experience, further looking forward to married life together. I have had a longing to nurse my husband since I was a teenager, not ever knowing that ANR’s are more common in marriages than are ever talked about. I thought I was the odd one with the deep yearning … when in all reality, it is a God-given desire in all of us; for the woman’s desire … and for the man wanting to … drink of her nourishing essence, bringing needed relief to the inner ache and fullness at hand. Never having been married nor nursed a baby, the desire to deeply bond with my husband and give him this gift no one else can(married for life), has lept off the charts. In my research on Mother-Child breastfeeding, there are significant hormones released in this amazing process. Oxytocin is the “bonding” hormone. It is released in the breastmilk during breastfeeding so that Mother and child attach & bond. Oxytocin & dopamine are released during a couple’s love making, facilitating their bonding as well. Prolactin is the “relaxation” hormone released in both instances. In couples, it is the “relaxed feeling” in the after-glow 🙂 I have read alot of informaton & blogs from sites to know this takes real commitment & patience in this process to bring in the sweet milk. I am greatly encouraged to know that I am capable of producing milk at my age and without prior childbirth experience … I have not been in an ANR before, so the thought of this [ANR dating] community existing is very exciting and gives me hope to find the husband of my deepest desire. I love to cook & bake. I want to have a relaxing, cozy home for my husband to come home to; his safe-haven from the day to day grind. Growing together in our shared faith(not religion), coupled with our ANR can only take our already deep bond to an even deeper level that we have never experienced. If what I have written is what you are looking for, then awesome, send me your thoughts. Please no game players. I want serious-NOT curious. God be with you. Jeanne”
More from Jeanne:
“… I am in the process of becoming a ChildBirth Doula. In January, I was looking up more Breastfeeding info when I discovered ANR’s. Within a couple of clicks, I found your site and I am thrilled to pieces to read all of your personal journal entries so beautifully written, with honesty, from the heart.
An ANR is something I have desired since early adulthood but never knew there was an actual name for it or an established ANR community. I am 47 y.o., never married, no kids. Last April, I began a long distance relationship with a Kiwi (New Zealander) living in Australia … God’s perfect timing has brought us together, through an amazing journey this last year.
When I called him and shared this ANR discovery with him, he was thrilled and very intrigued at the same time. He has read a few of your journal entries and really wants to give it ago, once we are married …
He is a social worker in a small town hospital and I mentioned that I thought at some point, as a couple, we could share the amazing benefits of ANR’s with other married couples who may be struggling in their marriages or who just want guidance to deepen their initmacy. My Kiwi and I have had many in depth discussions over the course of getting to know each other. I am thrilled beyond words that he and I have an equal passion for breast attention. Reading Song of Solomon makes so much more sense in how God designed husbands and wives to enjoy each others bodies within the exclusiveness of marriage …
We are so looking forward to all of the wonderful moments and benefits to be had with our ANR. I would imagine, as “older” newlyweds, we will be getting alot of feedback as to the secrets to our higher than normal display of “wedded bliss”. I know without a doubt that God designed us for each other at this time in our life; experiencing and expressing for each other a love that could have only come from God alone.
“Desire the elongated nipples associated with breastfeeding. Nursed both of my children and loved the feeling, the bond, the closness. Now would like an ABF relationship […] Not currently milky but would definitely consider inducing as I so LOVE the feeling of having very full milky breasts (that you can’t keep your hands […] off of), sensitive nipples, desperately needing you to suck […] & then the subsequent let down of my milk. Quite erotic!
About your ideal partner:
A tall, sexy, single man – Mmmmm! Love to watch him suck […] & caress, squeeze my other breast. Would love to know he is drinking my milk……Very sensual & erotic. Wanted my ex husband to nurse me – he refused!!!”
“Never lactated before however, I’ve always loved nipple play. I’ve desired an ABF/ANR for so long I didn’t know it was normal because no one ever talks about it. I’ve purchased a pump […] I would truly welcome a committed partner to help induce me & share this journey w/LTR maybe a forever bond. I’m loyal, sexual, sensuous, honest & READY. Are you ready for me? Are you HONEST? Let’s connect sooner rather than later as time and tomorrow are not promised to either of us.”
“I want an Adult Nursing RELATIONSHIP. I am not looking to just nurse someone, I want to find someone I can spend the rest of my life with.” About your ideal partner: “I enjoy living a quiet lifestyle and am interested in someone who desires the same. I am not interested in a relationship with someone who smokes. I am looking for someone who is eager to have a family. I prefer traditional gender roles. I have strong opinions sometimes, but I also have a big desire to take a more submissive role in a relationship.”
“Hello..I’m a Bright, and Gentle, Fun Lady..I’m soft spoken, but a strong person..Full of laughter..I’m a great cook, love to go out to dinner and have a movie out. GRILLING AT HOME. I like to walk on the beach, when it’s not to crowded, late evenings…I adore cuddling, being close sharing this MOST SPECIAL BOND TO MAKE A PART OF OUR DAILY LIVES… I’M 5’9 AFRICAN AMERICAN, PRETTY SOFT CARAMEL SKIN, BIG PRETTY SMILE, WITH BIG BROWN EYES..I HAVE MY OWN HOME, GROWN KIDS…READY TO LOVE AND BE LOVED,,,I AM MOST OF ALL A CHRISTIAN…A WOMAN OF GOD.. I AM OPEN FOR THE SAME TYPE QUALITIES, AND A LOVING CHRISTIAN MAN..THAT LIKE THE SIMPLE THINGS IN LIFE, AND WANTS TO SHARE THIS TYPE OF LOVE … A GENTLEMAN TALLER THAN MYSELF, AGES OF 40-65… WOULD BE NICE.. HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY…”
“Having my nipples suckled feels like electricity shooting through my body. I miss the feeling and would like to experience it again.
About your ideal partner:
Locals only. Seeking someone that could curl up in my lap and gently suckle on my big nipples for hours.”
“I am an active Christian wanting to begin an ANR/ABF relationship. My hope is that in time my ANR partner and I could meet all of each other’s partner needs: ANR, social, sexual, etc. I don’t smoke, do drugs and only occasionally have a drink; maybe 5 or 6 a year. Willing to relocate for the right man…”
“Looking for someone I click with mentally as well as physically. A man who really enjoys all aspects of ANR, from its beautiful calming, meditative qualities all of the way to the potential of intimate, erotic bonding.
A man that’s interested in dating with the possibility of eventually building a relationship that could become a mutually monogamous LTR. Someone who loves to laugh & have fun! :)”
About my ideal partner: “A dominant man, a man who knows what he wants, a man of power, a man in charge, either in work/life or in both..He will be able to revert back to a time where he had no responsibility. He will come to me, I will be his safe haven to accommodate him. He will let go of every responsibility he has, his only care in the world will be just to nurse on me and nothing else. I will make him feel safe with no judgement ever. His beautiful head of hair close to my chest as he suckles my breasts to his satisfaction. All the while I’m running my fingers through his hair humming to him as he relaxes and let’s go of every care he has in the world and just stays in the moment with me. Then he will be MY responsibility to nurture lovingly.”
“I am seeking a fulltime serious anr relationship. I would like to meet someone who has the same values as me and that wishes to share in the adventure and journey that is anr. To meet my true [mate] with whom I can share all aspects of life on a day to day basis. I believe that one of the true apsects of anr is that a man and a woman become the closests of friends and sharing of everything in life. The bond that comes from sharing during the nursing and suckling is one such that only true people who have shared this desire to be this close with another human being understands the need and desire. To have that special someone who is my friend, lover, helpmate in life and that will really accept me for me as I am to accept them. I would love nothing better than to meet my partner with whom I could share myself both day and night, to lay in bed in the evening and nurse, just to share that close time at the end of the day. To awake with that person in the morning and start the day in a companionable nursing session to start the day relaxed and know that when you walk out the door for the day to know that person will there for you to share with all over again. To hold that special person in my arms close to my heart and have them gently suckle my sweet love right out of my body and feel it flow into them. It is almost a spiritual experience and one that I dearly miss in my life.”
“The thought of providing my partner with nourishing milk is a wonderful thought. And the sight of him drinking from … me… I can’t explain the feeling it gives me. I want the closeness and bonding that naturally comes with that kind of relationship. Adult nursing relationships offer a connection conventional relationships don’t have and I want that.” (emphasis mine)
“An ABF relationship is a form of bonding and it is also very erotic.” About your ideal partner: “I would hope you would be just as excited as I am with this relationship. You should understand that this is for both of us. It would make you happy to know that I am receiving just as much pleasure, from what you are making my body do for you.”
“You wear the pants & I want to serve you Let me be the beautiful caring, nurturing woman that I am. Id love to take care of all your needs.”
“I have always loved breast [attention]. It wasn’t until recently that I learned about this kind of relationship. Now I feel as though a ‘light has gone off’- I know exactly what I want and an ANR is just that. I would love to cuddle up with a nice person, watch ESPN or a movie, and … develope a loving caring relationship with.”
“I have always loved attention to my breasts and have a nurturing disposition. I can’t get the idea and need to feed my partner, out of my head, so here I am. I see breastfeeding my partner as a deeply bonding, sensual and ultimately loving act. To watch … as the milk flows from my body into his would be truly beautiful.”
“ANR relationships are a new idea for me, and I knew right away that one was for me. It’s been about 6 mos., and I’ve been learning all I can about ANR, and I feel like I’m getting a glimpse of heaven. The closeness, the physical and emotional intimacy, the enhanced feelings of deep caring, giving and receiving, are described as both attainable and worth working for. Not lactating yet, but working on it. ( Update: about 2 1/2 yrs. now that I’ve been looking.) I’m a woman of 69 living in Southern CA, retired … I’ve learned that very little is worth serious disagreement. Or even mild disagreement.”
“I’m a nice, inexperienced (in relation to abf), ordinary woman. I hope to experience the comfort and intimacy of abf for long periods at a time, which I suspect would feel beautiful!”
“I’ve been interested in having an ABF for years. It’s not a fetish for me, but [a great] desire–I long for it, yearn for it. I think it’s one of the greatest and most powerful bonds two people can have. It’s intimate, sexual, sensual and erotic. I would love to share this wonderful experience with another person and hope that one day I’ll be able to.” About your ideal partner: “Someone who truly’gets it’ and longs for it like I do.”
“am a kind, caring, educated professional who has such an intense desire for this most intimate bond that I would rather be alone than to be in a relationship without it. My lover will escape the stresses of the day in my arms …”
“I find the whole process intriguing and can’t wait to have milk!! Hoping to find a partner who realizes this is a giving act on both parts and craves the closeness as well as the sexual.”
“I am a down to earth women seeking a long term relationship with ABF a part of our daily life.”
“I am currently not lactating but want to meet a man with the same desires as me so we can make it a reality. I want to nurse him on demand when he desires it.” About your ideal partner: “Someone with whom I share a connection physically, mentally and emotionally who can … nurse whenever desired on my warm sweet goodness. I cannot deny him as he needs nourishment and security from my breast.”
“ANR is a beautiful expression of love between two people. My objective is very much emotional. I want the experience with someone who I trust, love and is deserving of such an amazing gift. It is something I desire as part of a couple, not as a random milkmaid”
“I’m looking to find someone who is as interested in developing an all inclusive ANR as much as I am. I would like to find someone with whom I can share the interdependency of this type of a relationship.”
“Have never experienced and not sure if able. Has been my [dream] for years.”
“So interested in this, it’s my ultimate erotic [desire].”
“The idea of nurturing a man does something to me … I can’t even imagine what the actual act would be like…Never expressed the urge to with any man I’ve been with.”
“This is something I’ve thought about for years. Up until recently I didn’t even know there were others, and there are groups! I’m looking to meet someone that has experience. Drug and disease free. Ages 45-55.”
“Was reading up, watching some videos and talking to some people about ANR/ABF and I was hooked. I’m trying to lactate now, its only been a about a month (5/15/2020). Having fun trying though 🙂 Would love to find a partner … over 45ish … to suckle me ALL the time and see where it leads us. Want to find someone for exclusive LTR ANR to build something fun and nurturing. I hope you love suckling ALL the time, want to help me lactate and keep it going. Enjoy every drop 🙂 Not interested in married men or random suckling hookups…..”
“Seeking soul bonding experiences through ANR. Young. Actually attractive.”
“Hello I would like to find someone who would like to suckle on my girls I’m a BBW size is 44DD”
“I am smiley with a happy youthful disposition. 🙂 However, The present state of this world can be challenging, as social distancing and wearing masks are the opposite of suckling. But this climate also reminds us to be thankful for what we have! Nursing is the most intimate thing people can do! So beautiful, so sensual, and all the happy endorphins! I do enjoy dating younger. Ultimately, I’m looking for a serious relationship. Not a play friend! ANR means everything to me. Nursing is the icing on all cakes! A necessity in my life. It makes regular love become the biggest super love! Lactating makes me so happy and makes life brighter. They’re big and they’re spectacular, yes. Never be ashamed of this lifestyle, people.”
“Single Afro American Female hope to give emotional, and physical connection as well as friendship. Possibly even more. I would like to receive emotional connection as well as nurturing connection, I prefer someone my age.”
“I am a 37 year old looking for someone prefer male the same age as me but no older than 45 please. Someone interested in Anr. I have some milk but not alot. Wanting to have full breasts of milk. I am Hispanic on the big side but not to big. I am ready to meet you.”
“Looking for a mature man who loves breasts and would like to taste my sweet milk. Been in one nursing relationship before. Age doesnt matter as long as youre respectful and kind. … willing to travel. Cant host. Im Latina, 5’3 with C cups.”
“New to this but so turned on…. I’m a 36ddd”
“Hi there I’ve always had an interest in abf and have been trying to induce lactation recently. I’m a young, curvy Asian girl with 38B breasts and large areolas. If you are located in … I would love to have you come suckle …”
“I’m a curvy/thick Latina, 5”4, and about 185-190lbs. I have some experience in ANR/ABR, and am looking for a wet nursing partner … who can get together frequently relax and enjoy a good suckling/nursing session. I’m currently re-lactating and typically produce about 2 months in and would really appreciate assistance with the induction process. I’m divorced but have children at home so my partner would need to be able to host. I’m currently looking to meet friends locally … I’m looking to meet men who enjoy suckling and lactation. I’m interested in men (preferably 25-50) who are more or less in shape and well groomed. I’m looking for local …”
“Hi there, I’m looking for a man to suckle me for comfort. I’m not looking for sex just the comfort of two people. ANR or ABF”
“I am looking for someone to assist in helping me lactate. Once milk comes in they are able to drink all they want”
“This is a first for me but I am excited to experience and have been wondering for awhile now.”
“im a natural redhead very sensual I am 34c I am looking for an anr relationship with an older gentlemen. I am not currently lactating but would love an experienced older gentlemen to show me the way. im looking for consistency.its my first time but I love my breasts suckled”
“IM a very affectionate and caregiver soul, who is looking for a long term anr friendship. I can produce allot of milk with a little encouragement and willing to cuddle or other positions while Nursing. I look forward to meeting you 💋”
“Fun loving, nursing obsessed SSBBW in SoCal”
“I love to snuggle as a man suckles on my breasts it’s a very stimulating and comforting”
“I am looking for someone a man between the ages of 40-55 maybe a little older. I’m looking for someone to help me re lactate. I’m not looking for sex just nursing. Please message me back.”
“Female, has lactated before, would like to induce and breastfeed nightly”