“For many adult breastfeeders, traditional narratives of age or power play doesn’t enter their kink. Those that I spoke to did not mention wanting to feel like a child, or conversely, wanting to feel like a mother. The desire to revert back to childhood—common in adult babies—is also rarely mentioned on any adult breastfeeding sites. The two [kinks] may seem related, but seldom play out in tandem. What’s clear is that people in adult breastfeeding relationships get something out of their kink that trumps society’s judgement. ‘I don’t think there’s another way to get [what I get out of breastfeeding],’ Kate told me. ‘It’s unique.’”
-from an online article (this author’s finding corroborates my claim in ‘Am I twisting Scripture to justify my kinky fetish?’ that fewer than 10% of Couples Nursers also include mother-baby role play in their relationships, and in ‘A Biblical defense of ANRs’ that Adult Nursers have no problem mentally separating infant nursing from their lifestyle, unlike most people who have been conditioned to think breastmilk = babies only).
Couples Nursing is not weakness, creepiness, infantilism or pedophilia. Be strong in the Lord. Be secure. A little sugary goodness from your loving wife doesn’t make you weak or infantile. Be so firm and secure in the Lord that you develop an accepting attitude towards Couples Nursing that trumps society’s judgment. Trust me, you won’t come out of the other side of the tunnel changed. You’ll be every bit as manly and strong as you are now, if not stronger.
I have set the Lord always before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken.
And you will feel secure, because there is hope; you will look around and take your rest in security.
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.
There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.
-1 John 4:18
Reviews and testimonials from mostly female ANR enthusiasts, to see direct evidence from men and wives of men who are secure enough to engage in this beautiful intimacy.