The world likes to twist Scriptural truths.
They’d like to have us think sex is all about us but one of the main reasons God gave us such a powerful gift is not to get our rocks off. It’s to serve our spouse. By putting their needs above ours.
Our reciprocal pleasure should only be a side effect of the sacrificial love we give out.
“Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his [wife].”
– John 15:13