Tomboyishness versus femininity can only be ascertained through conversation. Yes, you can see signs of both from afar in some women, but looks can be deceptive.
ANR desire is more about who a person is on the inside than external attributes. The spirit is more important than the shell.
So men, I’d exhort you to be forthcoming. Tell her you seek the comforting feminine type, not the tomboy.
Women, the confidently vulnerable, non-Puritanical man is your likely bet.
Christ-centered ANR 