2 You yourselves are our letter of recommendation, written on our[a] hearts, to be known and read by all. 3 And you show that you are a letter from Christ delivered by us, written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts.[b] — 2 Corinthians 3 Footnotes 6 I planted, Apollos…
Secular, uncensored Urban Dictionary has a line or two I love on this wonderful relationship: ANR/ABF stands for: A Nursing Relationship/Adult Breast Feeding. ANR/ABF refers to a relationship involving sucking milk from the female breast as an expression of close intimacy. Adult Nursing Relationships depend on a stable and long term relationship of the couple,…
I’ve stated before that one major objection I’ve gotten to the idea of promoting Christian ANRs is that the Bible never places as much an emphasis on it as I do. But those who level such accusations never take the time to consider the whole counsel of God. A related example is the fact that…
If you’ve ever seen a lightning bolt, heard thunderstorms, felt the magnitude of an earthquake, smelled the potent odor of sulfur in a natural hot spring or tasted a hurricane’s wrath, you realize how completely at God’s mercy we are. But that doesn’t even scratch the surface. There is the turbulence of the Great Red…
“I want my man to only eat what my hands or my breasts make.” — ANR blogger
USE GREAT CAUTION IF VISITING ARTICLE SOURCE Erotic lactation is sexual arousal by breastfeeding on a woman’s breast. Depending on the context, the practice can also be referred to as adult suckling, adult nursing, and adult breastfeeding. Practitioners sometimes refer to themselves as being in an adult nursing relationship (ANR). Two people in an exclusive relationship can be called a nursing couple. […]…
Based on my involvement in ANR research for almost a decade, here are my very rough estimates on various demographics relating to Adult Nursing worldwide. ANR leaders: born with the ANR “gene” and have been interested for a while; at the forefront of accelerating the progress of Couples Nursing. Visionaries, organizers, bloggers, webmasters, group admins,…
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Imagine we live in a time and place where being affectionate is seen as weak, infantile and taboo. “Real men and women past the age of 5 don’t cuddle” and “skin-to-skin contact is strictly reserved for mother and child” are our national ethoses. But using biblical, medical and anecdotal evidence, I respectfully challenge and oppose…
An ANR is literally partying, feasting, reveling, rejoicing, relaxation, vulnerability, emotional intimacy, cuddling, sex, spirituality, healthy eating, and worship all rolled up into one act. No wonder couples often report that the act leads to the greatest sex they’ve ever had. See also: Fiesta, Fiesta: Food brings people together FeastingFood
To minimize the shock and creep factor, I now think it’s wiser to stagger your disclosure. Consider breaking it into the following stages: Stage One: The homework/detective stage. Guys, seek the feminine, nurturing, affectionate type. Girls, look for a man who’s openminded and not too puritanical. Stage Two: The buildup/getting intimate stage. Build trust. Patience…
By Sonya Schwartz Among the many … kinks we might all be aware of, adult nursing relationships are one of the ones currently seeping its way out into the open and becoming slightly less taboo. The interesting thing is, although adult nursing might be considered a fetish, it’s not actually always sexual. Lots of people choose…
By Sonya Schwartz Among the many … kinks we might all be aware of, adult nursing relationships are one of the ones currently seeping its way out into the open and becoming slightly less taboo. The interesting thing is, although adult nursing might be considered a fetish, it’s not actually always sexual. Lots of people choose…
Just recently, I again heard of another marriage that fell apart despite including an ANR. The point of this blog is not and never will be that an ANR should be placed on the highest pedestal, that those who practice ANR have “arrived,” or an ANR is the end-all of marital woes. It’s simply that…
God takes no pains whatsoever to prove Himself to us in His word. The Bible always presupposes our knowledge of His existence, because every human being knows God exists, and is without excuse. ¹, ² Similarly, ANRs between married couples are taken for granted in Scripture. When God designed the institution of marriage, along with…
Yesterday, someone was led to this blog by entering the above question into a search engine. Made me curious how you would handle this. Please comment below. Thanks a bunch. God-confidenceWorry
Just over a year ago, I was on a date with a missionary kid born and raised in a tribal country in the tropical Eastern hemisphere. She had grown up around breastfeeding mothers all her life. Following my M.O., when I finally got to bringing up CN to find out what she thought of it,…
If you’re struggling to appreciate the idea of an ANR, ask yourself why God breathed such a thing out into his word. Seek to discern the profitability of this particular exhortation. These posts may help towards that end. So if God tells you to “drink heavily from her breasts,” don’t argue with God. Just drink…
Rejoice, ANR/ABF community worldwide! Since I began delving into ANR research around 2013/14, no year has passed without someone coming out or something significant happening to push Couples Nursing closer to the mainstream. Sure, some sites have either closed or been taken down, but the rate of new developments outpaces the shutdowns. Examples include Atlanta’s…
Rom 8:32 – He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? 2 Cor. 8:9 – For you know the grace our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake became poor, so…
Three posts from a 30 y.o. woman on a non-Christian ANR site: First post: Beginning my journey It was not an easy decision for me to start the process of induction. I developed my large breasts very early on in life and my love/hate relationship with them strongly influenced my sexual development. Learning to…
A recent conversation with an ANR aspirant precipitated this discussion. In the ANR world, there doesn’t seem to be an easy answer. Even pastors and Christian counselors and healthcare workers become apprehensive about sharing in an effort to bless. Personally, I no longer see that big a deal. When married, should I feel sufficiently close…
According to Dr. Gary Chapman, the 5 love languages are: Gift giving Quality time Words of affirmation Acts of service (devotion) Physical touch Obviously, by their very nature, ANRs fluently speak four of these five languages, and the fifth can easily be incorporated. Both parties get to serve the other. Contrary to what most ANR…
A memorable ANR profile I came across said nearly verbatim: “I’ve been a surrogate mother and have nursed multiple babies. Nursing adults was never my thing until I tried it and was shocked that I liked it.” That’s because nursing unleashes some powerful nurturing instincts in a woman, more than she ever knew she had.…
Taken from: True love suffers. Love entails vulnerability. The Latin word for wound is vulnus, from which we derive ‘vulnerable.’ Similarly, passion means to suffer. Suffering in Latin is patior, from which we get the English word ‘patience’ and ultimately ‘passion.’ It’s the vulnerability ANR creates that scares people away. The intimacy is too much for them…
There’s only one thing stopping me from creating the Christian dating site for which so many of us deeply long. But it’s one major hindrance. To operate a blog, you only need one person with free time here and there but with a website dedicated to matchmaking, I feel I’ll need to invest so much…
Whoever says he abides in Him ought to walk in the same way in which He walked. – 1 John 2:6 It’s a commonly heard complaint that Christians never practice what they preach. They’re Sunday morning benchwarmers with no tangible acts of Christ’s love. Whoever thinks this way has not met too many ANR-friendly Christians.…
Depending on their popularity and longevity in biblical times, this question may be like asking if Jesus would have enjoyed sexual intimacy with His wife if He had gotten married. ANRs might have been widely practised, and possibly been the norm in His day; if that were the case, I’m pretty sure He would have…
We ANR-loving people are “weirdos” who: Have all-day custody of your children at daycare Teach them in all grades beyond daycare Shepherd your churches Hold public service jobs Provide you emotional support during labor Care for your elderly parents Hold corporate titles like Financial Advisor and Research Analyst Care for you when you’re sick or…
Christ-centered ANR 