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How to disclose your desire without coming off as a creep

To minimize the shock and creep factor, I now think it’s wiser to stagger your disclosure. Consider breaking it into the following stages: Stage One: The homework/detective stage. Guys, seek the feminine, nurturing, affectionate type. Girls, look for a man who’s openminded and not too puritanical. Stage Two: The buildup/getting intimate stage. Build trust. Patience…

Five Nineteen Day: Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR): How to Induce Lactation for my Husband

By Sonya Schwartz Among the many … kinks we might all be aware of, adult nursing relationships are one of the ones currently seeping its way out into the open and becoming slightly less taboo. The interesting thing is, although adult nursing might be considered a fetish, it’s not actually always sexual. Lots of people choose…

The woeful inadequacy of ANR

Just recently, I again heard of another marriage that fell apart despite including an ANR. The point of this blog is not and never will be that an ANR should be placed on the highest pedestal, that those who practice ANR have “arrived,” or an ANR is the end-all of marital woes. It’s simply that…

Can’t touch this

Rejoice, ANR/ABF community worldwide! Since I began delving into ANR research around 2013/14, no year has passed without someone coming out or something significant happening to push Couples Nursing closer to the mainstream. Sure, some sites have either closed or been taken down, but the rate of new developments outpaces the shutdowns. Examples include Atlanta’s…

The 5 Love Languages of ANR

According to Dr. Gary Chapman, the 5 love languages are: Gift giving Quality time Words of affirmation Acts of service (devotion) Physical touch Obviously, by their very nature, ANRs fluently speak four of these five languages, and the fifth can easily be incorporated. Both parties get to serve the other. Contrary to what most ANR…

To love another person is to see the face of God

Taken from: True love suffers. Love entails vulnerability. The Latin word for wound is vulnus, from which we derive ‘vulnerable.’ Similarly, passion means to suffer. Suffering in Latin is patior, from which we get the English word ‘patience’ and ultimately ‘passion.’ It’s the vulnerability ANR creates that scares people away. The intimacy is too much for them…

Meat tenderizer

I once had a Spanish teacher who noticed a small cut below my sideburns. The most caring and open-minded teacher I ever had, he suggested something unusual. Meat tenderizer. I soon gave it a shot. I even recently purchased one that’s seasoned. It’s rather piquant and spicy, so each application feels a bit like I’m…