Secular, uncensored Urban Dictionary has a line or two I love on this wonderful relationship: ANR/ABF stands for: A Nursing Relationship/Adult Breast Feeding. ANR/ABF refers to a relationship involving sucking milk from the female breast as an expression of close intimacy. Adult Nursing Relationships depend on a stable and long term relationship of the couple,…
I’ve stated before that one major objection I’ve gotten to the idea of promoting Christian ANRs is that the Bible never places as much an emphasis on it as I do. But those who level such accusations never take the time to consider the whole counsel of God. A related example is the fact that…
“May God give you a righteous wife who will be your fountain of blessing.” — email I received from an ANR-desiring Christian wife some time ago Women who partake in this intimate lifestyle don’t view it as babying their husbands or fetishizing breastfeeding in any way whatsoever. They see it as a way to bless…
If I’m used to holding a child’s hand all day, I could understand how making the transition to holding an adult’s hand for the very first time could feel weird. But perhaps I should get over the transition, and focus on the adult to whom I’m united. Maybe I can adjust to the change by…
The NIV Study Bible strongly supports my conjecture that husbands’ proximity to constantly lactating breasts back in the day meant the inevitability of Couples Nursing. Consider 1 Samuel 1:22 and study notes: “Hannah did not go. She said to her husband, ‘After the boy is weaned, I will take him and present him before the…
As we nurse, we grow closer than ever. The passion between us glows red hot. Our emotional connection knows no boundaries. Our bond ever so closely approximates that of the Ancient of days, the One whose internal love eternally holds all our souls in His unyielding care. The One whose love is as strong as…
Disclaimer: Material on Bountiful Fruits do not necessarily reflect the views of Christ-centered ANR. Although Married Milkmaid and I are both professing Christians and passionate ANR advocates, our blogs aren’t exactly identical in mission. I do, however, enthusiastically support her efforts to normalize this beautiful lifestyle. We are born with the instinct to suckle. From…
An ANR can eliminate or mitigate: Our high divorce rate Unhappy marriages Lack of quality time together Men’s erectile dysfunction Women’s difficulties with body image Men’s tendency to lust and cheat Women’s struggles with extra pounds Men’s pressure on women for sex Women’s need to feel needed Low milk supply High breast cancer rates
As a maternity nurse, I often sneak in ANR by counseling expecting couples that open-minded dads-to-be can help bring in the milk by suckling as due date approaches. I often get chuckles from couples and some actually try it. I think ANR just before regular maternal nursing begins is the blueprint for a successful family. …
I’ve had the privilege of living in different parts of the world, and visiting even more countries. Regardless of culture, one truth remains the same: humans love feasting. Feasts are the anchors for social gatherings everywhere. No party, get together, celebration, festival or social event is complete without food. Neither does any wedding, bridal shower,…
The spine of Rosaria Butterfield’s The Gospel Comes with a House Key: Practicing Radically Ordinary Hospitality in Our Post-Christian world is the joyful, generous, simple, yet often excruciating call to open our lives in service to others. A repeated refrain is “strangers become neighbors, and neighbors become family.” The Christian call to love is a…
Jesus anointed at Bethany 6 While Jesus was in Bethany in the home of Simon the Leper, 7 a woman came to him with an alabaster jar of very expensive perfume, which she poured on his head as he was reclining at the table. 8 When the disciples saw this, they were indignant. ‘Why this waste?’ they asked. 9 ‘This perfume…
From her elevated position in this clip, we observe their body language speaking louder than words as he looks up to her, and she assumes a protective posture, as well as the roles of nurturer and confidante. Body language speaks loudly and communicates deeper, more nuanced truths. The truth seen here is one reason feminists…
Women go gaga over the perfect latch. From being around women, browsing through female ANR profiles and listening to their desires, I know a girl would do anything for that perfect latch and suckle. To achieve this: He should cover as much of the nipple and areola as possible. He should use great suction. He…
This Interlinear Hebrew appears to have the original Hebrew, followed by a transliteration, and finally the English translation. Considering how this version uses the word “nipples” instead of “breasts” and the minor differences between the transliteration here and those of Old Testament Hebrew expert Bruce Waltke, perhaps it’s the Arabic cognate he mentions that’s used in…
Jesus Comforts His Disciples 1“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God a ; believe also in me.2My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? 3And if I go and prepare a place for you, I…
To see it flow from my body to his would be truly beautiful. – ANR seeker Medical experts can scan and image the entire human body, and with radioactive tracers, they can trace every part of our bodies. I can only imagine the beauty of following one of these tracers from bloodstream to bloodstream. Just…
From very cautiously researching on Christian/modest ANR resources and the now defunct, semi-modest ANRSpace, I gleaned that women who desire ANRs all seem to have bodies that are: Soft Smooth Extra fatty and creamy Curvaceous Sensual Sexual Sensitive Grandular Responsive Succulent “Juicy” Again, one can infer these WITHOUT sinning. I don’t think God wants us…
Here’s to standing up for a man and woman who are courageous enough to come out as an ANR couple on national television, only to be slammed by the uninitiated masses. Watch here (requires TV provider sign in). Read more: https://www.ibtimes.com/breastfeeding-man-drinking-wifes-breast-milk-helps-his-erectile-dysfunction-video-722400 Jeff and Michelle ‘Strange sex’
A recent conversation with an ANR aspirant precipitated this discussion. In the ANR world, there doesn’t seem to be an easy answer. Even pastors and Christian counselors and healthcare workers become apprehensive about sharing in an effort to bless. Personally, I no longer see that big a deal. When married, should I feel sufficiently close…
When my child holds my hand, I get a motherly feeling of protection but when my husband holds my hand, it has a romantic feel. When my child rests on my breasts, the feeling is warm and fuzzy, but when my husband rests on my breasts, erotic things happen. – near word-for-word quote I found…
Proverbs 5:19 for her
Disclaimer: this post isn’t necessarily an endorsement of everything on Bountiful Fruits. Although Married Milkmaid and I are both professing Christians and ANR advocates, our blogs aren’t exactly identical in mission. I do, however, support her efforts to normalize this beautiful lifestyle. As I sit down to write this post, I am truly a…
“…rejoice greatly with her, … 11 For you will nurse and be satisfied at her comforting breasts; you will drink deeply and delight in her overflowing abundance.” Isaiah 66:10c, 11 “I am looking for a respectful, faithful, christian gentleman & future husband who has a deep desire for his Proverbs 31:10 wife to feed him daily…
Enjoy your Thanksgiving weekend. And to all my married nursers, make tonight’s session a special one : )
Couldn’t do the tally for this quarter. Does anyone know when ANRSpace may be back up? See also: Godly ANR dating site desperately needed
Super soaker Saturdays
I occasionally get concerned about the possibility of a future wife’s increased size. If she isn’t too large to begin with, the increased cup size would be obvious. Married couples’ intimate lives is none of my business and I always try to focus on women’s eyes, not their breasts, but when living with the couple…
A few months before starting this blog, when researching ANR traits in women, and a picture of the typical ANR woman begin to take shape in my mind, I noticed many of the ladies that stood out tended to have an exalted, blessed, spiritual and heavenly beauty about them, so my mantra was “aim for…
Be patient. Trust God. God will see you through and you’ll most likely taste this and enjoy His grace in this exceptionally beautiful relationship. As you serve the Lord and hold on to His promises, keep an eye out for a brother or sister that fits the ANR profile, knowing how and when to bring…
Christ-centered ANR 