Another catch-all phrase to serve my brothers, and to some extent, sisters in Christ. The typical woman who loves ANRs enjoys contributing to the Physical and Emotional Wellbeing of others. Observe her. Does she enjoy showing affection to others? Is she the type who offers emotional support to those in need? Does she like cooking…
To minimize the shock and creep factor, I now think it’s wiser to stagger your disclosure. Consider breaking it into the following stages: Stage One: The homework/detective stage. Guys, seek the feminine, nurturing, affectionate type. Girls, look for a man who’s openminded and not too puritanical. Stage Two: The buildup/getting intimate stage. Build trust. Patience…
Guys, since God has created the sexes differently and sex has a more powerful effect on women, it’s important to avoid falling into sexual sin. When you get sexual with a woman before marriage, her heart gets involved. Getting visual or physical for your own purposes is prohibited. Never try to “see just to make…
Last weekend, we had a birthday party-cum-meet and greet at my new residence. Within a minute of entering the birthday celebrant’s place, I noticed her, and we were introduced. She was beautiful. With many features I find attractive in women. Cute facial features. Gracious, with a sense of humor. Tantalizing body, especially relevant parts. She…
Just over a year ago, I was on a date with a missionary kid born and raised in a tribal country in the tropical Eastern hemisphere. She had grown up around breastfeeding mothers all her life. Following my M.O., when I finally got to bringing up CN to find out what she thought of it,…
“Drinking breast milk?” I nodded, with a half-overjoyed, half-nervous smile that seemed to convey a sense of “Pay dirt. You win. You got me. No more beating around the bush.” I had just directed her to a Christ-centered ANR post where the Shulammite woman discusses feeding her bridegroom some wine/juice squeezed from her pomegranates. There…
I recently read Sex, Dating, and Relationships: A Fresh Approach by Gerald Hiestand and Jay Thomas. It’s a highly recommended read. According to Hiestand and Thomas, the Bible only presents three categories of relationships between any two human beings. We have the: Neighbor relationship (sex prohibited) Family relationship (sex prohibited) Marriage relationship (sex commanded) They also…
From very cautiously researching on Christian/modest ANR resources and the now defunct, semi-modest ANRSpace, I gleaned that women who desire ANRs all seem to have bodies that are: Soft Smooth Extra fatty and creamy Curvaceous Sensual Sexual Sensitive Grandular Responsive Succulent “Juicy” Again, one can infer these WITHOUT sinning. I don’t think God wants us…
If we navigate carefully, we can find modest websites that have a personal ad section, free and open to anyone. It just occurred to me to try posting on a relatively clean one, making sure to stress the importance of my faith. Now I’m waiting to see if it’ll yield any results. This could be…
Obviously, the most important thing to seek in a woman is godly character. But guys, also seek the woman that has soft breasts, not just large ones. The typical woman who really loves Couples Nursing absolutely possesses the most amazingly inviting breasts. A lady can have the largest natural breasts but if they’re too firm, she…
There’s only one thing stopping me from creating the Christian dating site for which so many of us deeply long. But it’s one major hindrance. To operate a blog, you only need one person with free time here and there but with a website dedicated to matchmaking, I feel I’ll need to invest so much…
What I’m most passionate about: Caring, hospitality, turning my home into a sanctuary, spiritual and emotional growth, living out the Beatitudes, gardening, writing, reading, nature, silence, nurturing deep connections with God and people, humor, good nutrition, dancing & balance/ rhythm in life. I typically spend my leisure time: Gardening, outdoor activities, reading, writing, crafts, cultural…
ABF singles allows obscene amounts of cleavage. So did anrdating.com before being suddenly parked. Kwink and ANR Connections take it a step further to full fledged nudity. There are others out there but it’s with these I’m most familiar. Needless to say, I do not recommend visiting them. “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins…
The first one isn’t quite a personal but a response to a question I had asked via email. Using biblical wisdom, google some of these ANR dating profile posts to corroborate their authenticity. “What are my reasons for wanting ANR within marriage? Sex within marriage is basically a way for a husband and wife to…
The recent Ashley Madison leak has revealed some telling data. 99.95% of the site’s users are male. How does this compare to other matchmaking sites? On those tailored towards mainstream sexual activity, about 75 to 80% of users are male. In comparison, only 68% of heterosexual accounts on ANRSpace belong to men, but I strongly believe the actual…
I don’t think there’s a consensus within the ANR community. Personally, I don’t waste time. I’m completely convinced that an ANR is a huge blessing, so I’m upfront about it. My general principle is first or second date depending on how well we appear to get along, and if she’s an online prospect then it’s always the…
Ultra cautiously. First, to maximize your chances of succeeding, only pursue/be pursued by the type of Christian that’s highly likely to say yes. For guys, it means aiming for the soft, nurturing girl. If you see no signs of feminine softness in her, you’re likely to be wasting your time and hers. Ladies, your best bet is…
Note: ANR in itself isn’t dangerous, our sinful hearts pose the real danger. While browsing through ANR dating profiles, I came across a woman I’ll never forget. She was very attractive physically, and also one of the handful of modestly dressed women on both websites on which I spotted her. And we have some things in…
This summer, I began a weekly series of posts in which I drew on my hundreds of hours of research to describe the woman who fits the profile of the typical ANR fan. Although I focused on profiling the woman that loves ANRs, ladies can also gain valuable insights by applying the masculine equivalents of these characteristics,…
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Fellow ANR/ABF fans, if you persevere, by God’s grace, you will more than likely find your ANR-willing mate. As mentioned in my first post, I am actively seeking Mrs. Right, both on and off-line. I have revealed my ANR desire to 14 women so far. To my surprise, those who agreed have been a significant minority. Precisely, five said…
I have visited virtually every active ANR dating site on the web, and while they vary widely in raunchiness or even “pornness”, their content invariably serves as a reminder that Christians are aliens in this fallen world. I want to give ANRSpace some credit for their efforts towards family friendliness, especially their no-cleavage policy, however simply reading what some…
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