Friendship – Loving another as one’s own soul

David and Jonathan’s Friendship 1 Sam. 18 As soon as he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. 2 And Saul took him that day and would not let him return to his father’s house. 3 Then Jonathan Continue reading Friendship – Loving another as one’s own soul

Desiring God – How to Have intimacy with God

Intimacy with God is available to you. It is as accessible to you as God’s promises. And God’s invitation to you to enjoy intimate fellowship with him is that thing that is putting your faith to the test more than anything else (James 1:2–4). The Heart of Intimacy Intimacy is what we call the experience Continue reading Desiring God – How to Have intimacy with God

Grace to you – intimacy with Christ

Unleashing God’s Truth, One Verse at a Time Intimacy with Christ Isaiah 64:6; Hosea 6:6; Matthew 5:10-12; Matthew 6:6; John 15:14; Acts 10:36; 2 Corinthians 12:7-9; Philippians 3:4-10; Hebrews 1:1; James 4:4; 1 Peter 1:8 The apostle Paul perfectly expresses the most earnest desire of every true follower of Christ: “That I may know him” (Philippians 3:10). “Knowing Christ,” in the Pauline sense is not Continue reading Grace to you – intimacy with Christ

To love another person is to see the face of God

Taken from: True love suffers. Love entails vulnerability. The Latin word for wound is vulnus, from which we derive ‘vulnerable.’ Similarly, passion means to suffer. Suffering in Latin is patior, from which we get the English word ‘patience’ and ultimately ‘passion.’ It’s the vulnerability ANR creates that scares people away. The intimacy is too much for them Continue reading To love another person is to see the face of God

I am IN the Father and the Father is IN Me; the Holy Spirit will dwell IN you

John 14 English Standard Version (ESV) I Am the Way, and the Truth, and the Life 14 “Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God;[a] believe also in me. 2 In my Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you?[b]3 And Continue reading I am IN the Father and the Father is IN Me; the Holy Spirit will dwell IN you

Couples Nursing is a love language, not a fetish

I have a friend from Minnesota who has been influential in my walk. When new to the Christian faith, he once reminded me how being Christian doesn’t mean we must change our personalities. “If you’ve always liked a certain style of shirts”, he said, “you don’t have to change styles after conversion.” I’ve never seen Continue reading Couples Nursing is a love language, not a fetish

Quantum Entanglement and the Wisdom of Rafiki – Elisha’s Riddle

Disclaimer: I like much of Elisha’s riddle, but their doctrine doesn’t completely align with mine, especially with regards to salvation. The article below though, is a gem. Are you familiar with “entangled particles” from the world of quantum physics?  Far more mind-blowing than anything in science fiction is the reality of God’s creation, and how Continue reading Quantum Entanglement and the Wisdom of Rafiki – Elisha’s Riddle

Soft

This is the penultimate trait in our series. Many ANR women are tender, soft-spoken, cuddly, sensitive, gentle, peaceful and unquestionably feminine. God created women to be softer, more delicate and innate nurturers. These women take pride in their femininity; they naturally and joyfully take hold of divinely established gender roles. They are built more for comfort than Continue reading Soft

Lessons from Ashley Madison: the uniqueness of ABF

The recent Ashley Madison leak has revealed some telling data. 99.95% of the site’s users are male. How does this compare to other matchmaking sites? On those tailored towards mainstream sexual activity, about 75 to 80% of users are male. In comparison, only 68% of heterosexual accounts on ANRSpace belong to men, but I strongly believe the actual Continue reading Lessons from Ashley Madison: the uniqueness of ABF

When to bring it up to a potential mate

I don’t think there’s a consensus within the ANR community. Personally, I don’t waste time. I’m completely convinced that an ANR is a huge blessing, so I’m upfront about it. My general principle is first or second date depending on how well we appear to get along, and if she’s an online prospect then it’s always the Continue reading When to bring it up to a potential mate

How to bring it up to a potential mate

Ultra cautiously. First, to maximize your chances of succeeding, only pursue/be pursued by the type of Christian that’s highly likely to say yes.  For guys, it means aiming for the soft, nurturing girl. If you see no signs of feminine softness in her, you’re likely to be wasting your time and hers. Ladies, your best bet is Continue reading How to bring it up to a potential mate

Skydiving without a parachute

Faith without works is dead A beloved Christian that God used in my salvation story often says something in the same vein as “being Christian doesn’t mean neglecting to apply practical wisdom that aligns with God’s Word.” In other words, we Christians must fight our tendency to over-spiritualize everything. In our attempt to be spiritual, we sometimes lose our grounding Continue reading Skydiving without a parachute

Godly ANR dating site desperately needed

I have visited virtually every active ANR dating site on the web, and while they vary widely in raunchiness or even “pornness”, their content invariably serves as a reminder that Christians are aliens in this fallen world. I want to give ANRSpace some credit for their efforts towards family friendliness, especially their no-cleavage policy, however simply reading what some Continue reading Godly ANR dating site desperately needed

Intro

Greetings, everyone. Welcome to a new member of a growing number of blogs dedicated to Adult Nursing Relationships and Adult Breastfeeding (ANR and ABF). I’m creating this blog for two reasons: to show that when done in the only permissible context, marriage, this loving act only strengthens a bond and points to an amazingly wise and compassionate God, and secondly, to meet a Continue reading Intro