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The oxytocin rush that all ANRs ultimately channel

“Never having been married nor nursed a baby, the desire to deeply bond with my husband and give him this gift no one else can(married for life), has lept off the charts. In my research on Mother-Child breastfeeding, there are significant hormones released in this amazing process. Oxytocin is the “bonding” hormone. It is released…

In the bosom of Jesus

“Now there was leaning on Jesus’ bosom one of His disciples, whom Jesus loved.” John 13:23 (NKJV) “One of his disciples, whom Jesus loved, was at the table, leaning against Jesus’ breast.” John 13:23 (WEB) “So he, having his head on Jesus’s bosom, leaned back and asked, ‘Master, who is it?’” John 13:25 (Weymouth NT)…

Trust and ANR

“I really want to have sex with you because you’re a human male I trust to not murder me in my sleep.” — funny woman on hit TV show As this comedienne rightfully states, trust is a huge issue for women in intimate situations involving men. But if you can get a man on your…

Avatar and God’s organically connected universe

Whether he realizes it or not, James Cameron got this idea from Christianity. The concept of parts being intimately linked to form a greater whole, with a central node-like figure playing a preeminent role to which others pay deference, is straight out of several passages of the Bible (see for example Ex. 18:13-27, Eph. 5:23-24…

Caress her breasts

Married men, develop a habit of giving your wife’s breasts sweet, gentle caresses. ANR women have sensitive breasts. They absolutely love breast attention, so the feeling is heavenly. They find it incredibly relaxing. I think any combination of three things will result from such tender loving strokes: a full-blown nursing session, passionate sex, or she…

Organic synergy

Scientists have discovered that neighboring trees’ roots become interconnected underground, forming a larger system. They communicate and share nutrients.1, 2 In the same way, couples are supposed to be so intertwined that they form one ecosystem, a seamless union in which as one ANR woman put it, one member of the couple can say “I…

2 Become 1

I normally don’t quote the Spice Girls, but the chorus from this song speaks so beautifully to this blog and its mission that I had to share. “Come a little bit closer baby, get it on, get it on ‘Cause tonight is the night when two become one I need some love like I never…

Grace to you – intimacy with Christ

Unleashing God’s Truth, One Verse at a Time Intimacy with Christ Isaiah 64:6; Hosea 6:6; Matthew 5:10-12; Matthew 6:6; John 15:14; Acts 10:36; 2 Corinthians 12:7-9; Philippians 3:4-10; Hebrews 1:1; James 4:4; 1 Peter 1:8 The apostle Paul perfectly expresses the most earnest desire of every true follower of Christ: “That I may know him” (Philippians 3:10). “Knowing Christ,” in the Pauline sense is not…

To love another person is to see the face of God

Taken from: True love suffers. Love entails vulnerability. The Latin word for wound is vulnus, from which we derive ‘vulnerable.’ Similarly, passion means to suffer. Suffering in Latin is patior, from which we get the English word ‘patience’ and ultimately ‘passion.’ It’s the vulnerability ANR creates that scares people away. The intimacy is too much for them…

Community

[Verse 1: Stephen the Levite] I remember before my church started A season that I called the darkness Saved but still living in bondage Not know the problem was not just my pride and lust, But that life was so autonomous But at Epiphany I had an epiphany Realizing community was the way it was…

spiritual

We made it to the last characteristic in our profile of the typical ANR lover. I’m referring to the lower case ‘spiritual’ in this context. I’m only using the human definition in the non-biblical sense of being soulful and deep, as not all women with ANR desires are indwelt by God the Spirit, and conversely,…

Soft

This is the penultimate trait in our series. Many ANR women are tender, soft-spoken, cuddly, sensitive, gentle, peaceful and unquestionably feminine. They definitely have a soft spot for their husbands. God created women to be softer, more delicate and innate nurturers. These women take pride in their femininity; they naturally and joyfully take hold of divinely established…

Lessons from Ashley Madison: the uniqueness of ABF

The recent Ashley Madison leak has revealed some telling data. 99.95% of the site’s users are male. How does this compare to other matchmaking sites? On those tailored towards mainstream sexual activity, about 75 to 80% of users are male. In comparison, only 68% of heterosexual accounts on ANRSpace belong to men, but I strongly believe the actual…

When to bring it up to a potential mate

I don’t think there’s a consensus within the ANR community. Personally, I don’t waste time. I’m completely convinced that an ANR is a huge blessing, so I’m upfront about it. My general principle is first or second date depending on how well we appear to get along, and if she’s an online prospect then it’s always the…