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Fear of intimacy
It’s the intimacy that scares people away from ANRs. Extreme intimacy is a terrifying novelty to citizens of a fallen world. Being deeply intimate and vulnerable with another human being on such a level is too much, and touches a nerve. It’s taboo. But I’ll tell you who should be afraid of intimacy with you.…
In the bosom of Jesus
“Now there was leaning on Jesus’ bosom one of His disciples, whom Jesus loved.” John 13:23 (NKJV) “One of his disciples, whom Jesus loved, was at the table, leaning against Jesus’ breast.” John 13:23 (WEB) “So he, having his head on Jesus’s bosom, leaned back and asked, ‘Master, who is it?’” John 13:25 (Weymouth NT)…
Trust and ANR
“I really want to have sex with you because you’re a human male I trust to not murder me in my sleep.” — funny woman on hit TV show As this comedienne rightfully states, trust is a huge issue for women in intimate situations involving men. But if you can get a man on your…
You would love it when I stroke you during feeding sessions
Conversely, I also can’t keep my hands off my woman who I adore. During feeding sessions, I’d make sure at least one hand is always on you. I’ll stay stroking the other breast, your arms, face, torso or other parts that give you pleasure and joy. I’ll listen to your needs and respond well to…
In the bosom of the Father
John 1:18: Berean Literal Bible No one has ever yet seen God. The only begotten God, the One being in the bosom of the Father, He has made Him known. New American Standard Bible No one has seen God at any time; the only begotten God who is in the bosom of the Father, He has explained Him. New King James…
Avatar and God’s organically connected universe
Whether he realizes it or not, James Cameron got this idea from Christianity. The concept of parts being intimately linked to form a greater whole, with a central node-like figure playing a preeminent role to which others pay deference, is straight out of several passages of the Bible (see for example Ex. 18:13-27, Eph. 5:23-24…
Caress her breasts
Married men, develop a habit of giving your wife’s breasts sweet, gentle caresses. ANR women have sensitive breasts. They absolutely love breast attention, so the feeling is heavenly. They find it incredibly relaxing. I think any combination of three things will result from such tender loving strokes: a full-blown nursing session, passionate sex, or she…
For this reason, a man shall be glued to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh
For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. – Genesis 2:24 (KJV) “The Genesis text calls what happens ‘cleaving.’ This archaic English term, which you can find in the King James Version, conveys the strength of the Hebrew word which…
Intimacy breeds faithfulness in marriage
“Drink heavily from her breasts.” That’s one of God’s prescriptions for a strong, faithful marriage. Of course, hinging your marriage on the gospel of His Son is His main prescription, but physical and sexual intimacy definitely matter to Him. Proverbs 5-7 almost function as a unit, warning us to avoid adulterous people, by prescribing, among…
Organic synergy
Scientists have discovered that neighboring trees’ roots become interconnected underground, forming a larger system. They communicate and share nutrients.1, 2 In the same way, couples are supposed to be so intertwined that they form one ecosystem, a seamless union in which as one ANR woman put it, one member of the couple can say “I…
2 Become 1
I normally don’t quote the Spice Girls, but the chorus from this song speaks so beautifully to this blog and its mission that I had to share. “Come a little bit closer baby, get it on, get it on ‘Cause tonight is the night when two become one I need some love like I never…
Adam knew Eve his wife
Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, saying, “I have gotten a man with the help of the LORD.” – Genesis 4:1 For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the first-born among many brethren. – Romans 8:29…
Friendship – Loving another as one’s own soul
David and Jonathan’s Friendship 1 Sam. 18 As soon as he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. 2 And Saul took him that day and would not let him return to his father’s house. 3 Then Jonathan…
Desiring God – How to Have intimacy with God
Intimacy with God is available to you. It is as accessible to you as God’s promises. And God’s invitation to you to enjoy intimate fellowship with him is that thing that is putting your faith to the test more than anything else (James 1:2–4). The Heart of Intimacy Intimacy is what we call the experience…
Grace to you – intimacy with Christ
Unleashing God’s Truth, One Verse at a Time Intimacy with Christ Isaiah 64:6; Hosea 6:6; Matthew 5:10-12; Matthew 6:6; John 15:14; Acts 10:36; 2 Corinthians 12:7-9; Philippians 3:4-10; Hebrews 1:1; James 4:4; 1 Peter 1:8 The apostle Paul perfectly expresses the most earnest desire of every true follower of Christ: “That I may know him” (Philippians 3:10). “Knowing Christ,” in the Pauline sense is not…
John 1:18
Bible Rank: 182 No man hath seen God at any time, the only begotten Son, which is in the bosom of the Father, he hath declared him. KJV Top verses countdown
To love another person is to see the face of God
Taken from: True love suffers. Love entails vulnerability. The Latin word for wound is vulnus, from which we derive ‘vulnerable.’ Similarly, passion means to suffer. Suffering in Latin is patior, from which we get the English word ‘patience’ and ultimately ‘passion.’ It’s the vulnerability ANR creates that scares people away. The intimacy is too much for them…
Nearer, Still Nearer
Lyrics: Nearer, still nearer, close to Thy heart, Draw me, my Savior—so precious Thou art! Fold me, oh, fold me close to Thy breast; Shelter me safe in that “haven of rest”; Shelter me safe in that “haven of rest.” Nearer, still nearer, nothing I bring, Naught as an off’ring to Jesus, my King; Only…
Community
[Verse 1: Stephen the Levite] I remember before my church started A season that I called the darkness Saved but still living in bondage Not know the problem was not just my pride and lust, But that life was so autonomous But at Epiphany I had an epiphany Realizing community was the way it was…
I am IN the Father and the Father is IN Me; the Holy Spirit will dwell IN you
John 14 English Standard Version (ESV) I Am the Way, and the Truth, and the Life 14 “Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God;[a] believe also in me. 2 In my Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you?[b]3 And…
Holy Communion
48 “I am the bread of life. 49 Your fathers ate the manna in the wilderness, and they died. 50 This is the bread that comes down from heaven, so that one may eat of it and not die. 51 I am the living bread that came down from heaven. If anyone eats of this…
Couples Nursing is a love language, not a fetish
I have a friend from Minnesota who has been influential in my walk. When new to the Christian faith, he once reminded me how being Christian doesn’t mean we must change our personalities. “If you’ve always liked a certain style of shirts”, he advised, “you don’t have to change styles after conversion.” I’ve never seen…
Quantum Entanglement and the Wisdom of Rafiki – Elisha’s Riddle
Disclaimer: I like much of Elisha’s riddle, but their doctrine doesn’t completely align with mine, especially with regards to salvation. The article below though, is a gem. Are you familiar with “entangled particles” from the world of quantum physics? Far more mind-blowing than anything in science fiction is the reality of God’s creation, and how…
spiritual
We made it to the last characteristic in our profile of the typical ANR lover. I’m referring to the lower case ‘spiritual’ in this context. I’m only using the human definition in the non-biblical sense of being soulful and deep, as not all women with ANR desires are indwelt by God the Spirit, and conversely,…
Soft
This is the penultimate trait in our series. Many ANR women are tender, soft-spoken, cuddly, sensitive, gentle, peaceful and unquestionably feminine. They definitely have a soft spot for their husbands. God created women to be softer, more delicate and innate nurturers. These women take pride in their femininity; they naturally and joyfully take hold of divinely established…
Lessons from Ashley Madison: the uniqueness of ABF
The recent Ashley Madison leak has revealed some telling data. 99.95% of the site’s users are male. How does this compare to other matchmaking sites? On those tailored towards mainstream sexual activity, about 75 to 80% of users are male. In comparison, only 68% of heterosexual accounts on ANRSpace belong to men, but I strongly believe the actual…
When to bring it up to a potential mate
I don’t think there’s a consensus within the ANR community. Personally, I don’t waste time. I’m completely convinced that an ANR is a huge blessing, so I’m upfront about it. My general principle is first or second date depending on how well we appear to get along, and if she’s an online prospect then it’s always the…
How to bring it up to a potential mate
Ultra cautiously. First, to maximize your chances of succeeding, only pursue/be pursued by the type of Christian that’s highly likely to say yes. For guys, it means aiming for the soft, nurturing girl. If you see no signs of feminine softness in her, you’re likely to be wasting your time and hers. Ladies, your best bet is…
Christ-centered ANR 