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The creation of Eve

The Lord God said, ‚ÄúIt is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.‚ÄĚ  So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds in the sky and all the wild animals.    But for Adam no suitable helper was found. So the Lord God caused…

Ten commandments for husbands

From the interactive Bible at http://www.bible.ca/f-10com-husb.htm INTRO: The Bible is God’s “instruction manual” for happy human living. There is no other book on earth that will bring about inner peace and eternal life. One thing that most men have in common is that they are married. Unfortunately, because we live in an [ungodly] society, most…

How to get more action from her, biblically

A sexual how-to may seem strange coming from a single guy. However, as a Christian musician once said, experience is the teacher of fools. True believers gain wisdom and understanding from God’s Word. Although¬†I’ve never been married,¬†from reading the Bible daily for years, including relevant portions like Ephesians 5 and the Song of¬†Solomon, in addition…

Her strong desire for intimacy, communication and attention

A Christian site for women once polled its readers on what they¬†want most from their husbands,¬†apart from¬†sex. In order of popularity, the results were: His time Communication Non-sexual touching According to many CN-practicing women,¬†Couples Nursing gives them all of the above¬†and¬†amazing sex. Another intriguing¬†fact, I learned this in high school sex ed: if given two…

Do Her Shoes Fit?

‚ÄúChange the way you look at things and the things you look at change.‚ÄĚ Wayne W. Dyer I have been a contributor to a lot of anr blogs, groups, and forums throughout the years. Some have been good some have been useless, but one common message is present on everyone. If a woman refuses to…

Very legalistic statement from well-respected Christian site

There’s this very useful Christian website based in Colorado. Affiliated with a well-known conservative organization that promotes family values, the site¬†provides many helpful resources to single Christians and young adults and I generally enjoy their gospel-centered articles but one day, I came across an unhelpful, unforgettable statement that I must call out. If you’re a…

spiritual

We made it to the last characteristic in our profile of the typical ANR lover. I’m referring to the lower case ‘spiritual’ in this context. I’m only using the human definition in the non-biblical sense of being soulful and deep, as not all women with ANR desires are indwelt by God the Spirit, and conversely,…

Lessons from Ashley Madison: the uniqueness of ABF

The recent Ashley Madison leak has revealed some telling data. 99.95% of the site’s users are male. How does this compare to other matchmaking sites? On those tailored towards mainstream sexual activity, about 75 to 80% of users are male. In comparison,¬†only¬†68%¬†of heterosexual accounts on ANRSpace belong to men, but I strongly believe the actual…

When to bring it up to a potential mate

I don’t think there’s a¬†consensus within the ANR community. Personally, I don’t waste time. I’m completely convinced that an ANR is a huge blessing, so I’m upfront about it. My general principle is first or second date depending on how well we appear¬†to get along, and if she’s an online prospect then it’s always the…

Is an ANR marriage a long shot?

I often feel like my search is a long shot. I’m looking for a¬†minority of a minority. Only an estimated 6% of people living in Western countries¬†are thought to be genuinely saved. I further estimate that fewer than 5% of people practice or desire an Adult Nursing Relationship. After adding my other requirements and doing…