For married women only!: how to have a nipple orgasm

From healthline (Use caution if visiting website).   Your nipples are erogenous zones A lot of what we see in pop culture suggests that the only way women can orgasm is by stimulating the vaginal area. But that’s not true — not by a long shot. It’s possible for a woman to orgasm without ever touching Continue reading For married women only!: how to have a nipple orgasm

The three categories of relationships

I recently read Sex, Dating, and Relationships: A Fresh Approach by Gerald Hiestand and Jay Thomas. It’s a highly recommended read. According to Hiestand and Thomas, the Bible only presents three categories of relationships between any two human beings. We have the: Neighbor relationship (sex prohibited) Family relationship (sex prohibited) Marriage relationship (sex commanded) They also Continue reading The three categories of relationships

Surprise finding in response to nipple stimulation

From a CBS article Researchers at Rutgers University have mapped the brain areas in women that respond to stimulation of the genitals  WILEY PUBLISHING/BARRY KOMISARUK For many women, nipples are erogenous zones. A new study may explain why: The sensation from the nipples travels to the same part of the brain as sensations from the Continue reading Surprise finding in response to nipple stimulation

Keller – the gospel and sexuality

The moralist tends to see sex as dirty or at least a dangerous impulse that leads constantly to sin. There will be an approach-avoidance relationship with sex. The uneasy conscience of the moralist will lead to either complete avoidance OR to a very driven, breathless need for sexual experience. Both come from a glory-vacuum within, Continue reading Keller – the gospel and sexuality

Good sex means loving your spouse sacrificially

Sex isn’t about learning skills or being gratified, but about loving a person. Putting their needs above yours. I sometimes get anxious and try to micromanage my future sex life. “What if she won’t do this or that?” I often ask myself. Now I’ve realized that it’s not about me “getting mine” or being focused Continue reading Good sex means loving your spouse sacrificially

What If God Really Meant For Us to Have Freedom in the Bedroom?

From Sheila Wray Gregoire’s blog To Love, Honor & Vacuum. When it comes to sex, do you see God’s commands as being about making you do something you don’t want to do? I think that’s often the way we see things like 1 Corinthians 7:3-5–the “do not deprive each other” passage. That’s certainly the way Continue reading What If God Really Meant For Us to Have Freedom in the Bedroom?

Forbidden sexual practices and the call to holiness

Note how uncovering a person’s nakedness is exactly identical to uncovering the nakedness of the person’s spouse. The two really do become one flesh. New King James Version (NKJV) Laws of Sexual Morality 18 Then the Lord spoke to Moses, saying, 2 “Speak to the children of Israel, and say to them: ‘I am the Lord your Continue reading Forbidden sexual practices and the call to holiness

Thanks to guidance from God, improving our sex life has been the #1 marriage enhancer, of everything else tried

Getting married soon? Or maybe you’re already married and looking for some encouragement? Visit http://pinterest.com/pin/Aak3uZCRWxOuHfZMOYHQd-oGcthn25aB51xtNG2jZd1Nnvu4FiHM01k/?s=3&m=wordpress My favorite part of the article: 5. SEX IS IMPORTANT…LIKE REALLY IMPORTANT I seriously can’t touch on this point enough! (I’m actually thinking about writing an e-book on the topic of sex in marriage, so let me know in the Continue reading Thanks to guidance from God, improving our sex life has been the #1 marriage enhancer, of everything else tried

Let her breasts soak you at all times … but let her joy and pleasure be your ultimate aim

The world likes to twist Scriptural truths. They’d like to have us think sex is all about us but one of the main reasons God gave us such a powerful gift is not to get our rocks off. It’s to serve our spouse. By putting their needs above ours. Our reciprocal pleasure should only be Continue reading Let her breasts soak you at all times … but let her joy and pleasure be your ultimate aim

Why such irreverence? Isn’t the gospel infinitely more important?

Some people find this blog by googling things like “is it sinful to breastfeed my husband?”, and I received this on Wednesday on my Facebook page: “I CANNO’T UNDERSTAND CHRIST CENTERED ANR.HOW CAN LOVE FOR BOOBS AND LOVE FOR CHRIST GO TOGETHER?” It may seem to many that I am preaching a sexualized form of Continue reading Why such irreverence? Isn’t the gospel infinitely more important?

How to get more action from her, biblically

A sexual how-to may seem strange coming from a single guy. However, as a Christian musician once said, experience is the teacher of fools. True believers gain wisdom and understanding from God’s Word. Although I’ve never been married, from reading the Bible daily for years, including relevant portions like Ephesians 5 and the Song of Solomon, in addition Continue reading How to get more action from her, biblically