From healthline (Use caution if visiting website). Your nipples are erogenous zones A lot of what we see in pop culture suggests that the only way women can orgasm is by stimulating the vaginal area. But that’s not true — not by a long shot. It’s possible for a woman to orgasm without ever touching … Continue reading For married women only!: how to have a nipple orgasm
I recently read Sex, Dating, and Relationships: A Fresh Approach by Gerald Hiestand and Jay Thomas. It’s a highly recommended read. According to Hiestand and Thomas, the Bible only presents three categories of relationships between any two human beings. We have the: Neighbor relationship (sex prohibited) Family relationship (sex prohibited) Marriage relationship (sex commanded) They also … Continue reading The three categories of relationships
Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Corinthians 7:5 ESV https://bible.com/bible/59/1co.7.5.ESV It’s easy to miss this implicit command. We often neglect and disregard … Continue reading Do not deprive her
From a CBS article Researchers at Rutgers University have mapped the brain areas in women that respond to stimulation of the genitals WILEY PUBLISHING/BARRY KOMISARUK For many women, nipples are erogenous zones. A new study may explain why: The sensation from the nipples travels to the same part of the brain as sensations from the … Continue reading Surprise finding in response to nipple stimulation
The moralist tends to see sex as dirty or at least a dangerous impulse that leads constantly to sin. There will be an approach-avoidance relationship with sex. The uneasy conscience of the moralist will lead to either complete avoidance OR to a very driven, breathless need for sexual experience. Both come from a glory-vacuum within, … Continue reading Keller – the gospel and sexuality
When most people slap the word “fetish” on our desire, what they really mean is “kink.” There’s a tendency to be lazy with all word choices and I thinks this reflects poor vocabulary in our culture. Our failure to distinguish and discern variations between words causes many to mislabel this relationship because “fetish” rolls off the tongue … Continue reading Dictional laziness
Sex isn’t about learning skills or being gratified, but about loving a person. Putting their needs above yours. I sometimes get anxious and try to micromanage my future sex life. “What if she won’t do this or that?” I often ask myself. Now I’ve realized that it’s not about me “getting mine” or being focused … Continue reading Good sex means loving your spouse sacrificially
I have a friend that’s been a believer not quite as long as I have, yet unbelievably godly and mature. While discussing God’s plan for marital intimacy one day, he said the failure to have frequent sex is one of the primary ways with which Satan attacks marriages, couples grow distant, and eventually become just … Continue reading Have sex everyday
From Sheila Wray Gregoire’s blog To Love, Honor & Vacuum. When it comes to sex, do you see God’s commands as being about making you do something you don’t want to do? I think that’s often the way we see things like 1 Corinthians 7:3-5–the “do not deprive each other” passage. That’s certainly the way … Continue reading What If God Really Meant For Us to Have Freedom in the Bedroom?
Note how uncovering a person’s nakedness is exactly identical to uncovering the nakedness of the person’s spouse. The two really do become one flesh. New King James Version (NKJV) Laws of Sexual Morality 18 Then the Lord spoke to Moses, saying, 2 “Speak to the children of Israel, and say to them: ‘I am the Lord your … Continue reading Forbidden sexual practices and the call to holiness
“Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.” Proverbs 5:19 KJV http://bible.com/1/pro.5.19.KJV KJV notes: satisfy…: Heb. water thee be thou…: Heb. err thou always in her love
She 2 My beloved has gone down to his garden to the beds of spices, to graze[a] in the gardens and to gather lilies. 3 I am my beloved’s and my beloved is mine; he grazes among the lilies. 16 My beloved is mine, and I am his; he grazes[a] among the lilies.
Getting married soon? Or maybe you’re already married and looking for some encouragement? Visit http://pinterest.com/pin/Aak3uZCRWxOuHfZMOYHQd-oGcthn25aB51xtNG2jZd1Nnvu4FiHM01k/?s=3&m=wordpress My favorite part of the article: 5. SEX IS IMPORTANT…LIKE REALLY IMPORTANT I seriously can’t touch on this point enough! (I’m actually thinking about writing an e-book on the topic of sex in marriage, so let me know in the … Continue reading Thanks to guidance from God, improving our sex life has been the #1 marriage enhancer, of everything else tried
From my experiences, that seems to be the general sentiment among 75% of conservative evangelicals.
I had planned to post an article listing my reasons for wanting an ANR but my co-author’s post was a catalyst. So what are my reasons? Not gonna lie, the kink factor/sexual gratification is definitely a big one for me, and I’m sure most male readers could relate. There’s just something about full, productive, milky … Continue reading What’s my reason?
The world likes to twist Scriptural truths. They’d like to have us think sex is all about us but one of the main reasons God gave us such a powerful gift is not to get our rocks off. It’s to serve our spouse. By putting their needs above ours. Our reciprocal pleasure should only be … Continue reading Let her breasts soak you at all times … but let her joy and pleasure be your ultimate aim
My beloved put his hand through the keyhole. My heart throbbed for him. – Song of Solomon 5:4 My. Beloved. Put. His. Hand. Through. The. KEYHOLE. That had me like “ 😃 Ooooooooh, thank you Jesus! Please, won’t you please send me my dear Mrs. soon, so I could love her sacrificially… and um, put … Continue reading He put his hand through the keyhole
If only you were my brother, one who nursed at my mother’s breasts. If I saw you on the street, I would kiss you, and no one would look down on me. 2 I would lead you. I would bring you into my mother’s house. (She is the one who was my teacher.) I would … Continue reading Song of Solomon 8
[The chorus of young women] 7 How beautiful are your feet in their sandals, noble daughter! The curves of your thighs are like ornaments, like the work of an artist’s hands. 2 Your navel is a round bowl. May it always be filled with spiced wine. Your waist is a bundle of wheat enclosed in … Continue reading Song of Solomon 7
Some people find this blog by googling things like “is it sinful to breastfeed my husband?”, and I received this on Wednesday on my Facebook page: “I CANNO’T UNDERSTAND CHRIST CENTERED ANR.HOW CAN LOVE FOR BOOBS AND LOVE FOR CHRIST GO TOGETHER?” It may seem to many that I am preaching a sexualized form of … Continue reading Why such irreverence? Isn’t the gospel infinitely more important?
[The chorus of young women] Where did your beloved go, most beautiful of women? Where did your beloved turn? We will look for him with you. [Bride] 2 My beloved went to his garden, to the beds of spices, to graze his flock in the gardens and gather lilies. 3 I am … Continue reading Song of Solomon 6
[Groom] My bride, my sister, I will come to my garden. I will gather my myrrh with my spice. I will eat my honeycomb with my honey. I will drink my wine with my milk. Eat, my friends! Drink and become intoxicated with expressions of love! The Young Woman Dreams of Marriage with … Continue reading Song of Solomon 5
Solomon Is Charmed by the Young Woman [Groom] Look at you! You are beautiful, my true love. Look at you! You are so beautiful. Your eyes behind your veil are like doves. Your hair is like a flock of goats moving down Mount Gilead. 2 Your teeth are like a flock of sheep about to … Continue reading Song of Solomon 4
The Young Woman Dreams about Searching for Her Beloved [Bride] Night after night on my bed I looked for the one I love. I looked for him but did not find him. 2 I will get up now and roam around the city, in the streets, and in the squares. I will look … Continue reading Song of Solomon 3
I am a rose of Sharon, a lily ⌊growing⌋ in the valleys. [Groom] Like a lily among thorns, so is my true love among the young women. [Bride] Like an apple tree among the trees in the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. I want to sit in his shadow. His fruit … Continue reading Song of Solomon 2
The most beautiful song of Solomon. The Young Woman Arrives in Solomon’s Palace [Bride] Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth. Your expressions of love are better than wine, better than the fragrance of cologne. (Cologne should be named after you.) No wonder the young women love you! Take me with … Continue reading Song of Solomon 1
I found you by a Google search. I had an interest for years. I was happy to find your site because almost every other site was pornographic. For a long time I thought that there was no way to learn more without wading through the detritus. And there are times when I do go back … Continue reading Why this blog is necessary
A sexual how-to may seem strange coming from a single guy. However, as a Christian musician once said, experience is the teacher of fools. True believers gain wisdom and understanding from God’s Word. Although I’ve never been married, from reading the Bible daily for years, including relevant portions like Ephesians 5 and the Song of Solomon, in addition … Continue reading How to get more action from her, biblically