15 There is nothing outside a person that by going into him can defile him, but the things that come out of a person are what defile him.”[e]17 And when he had entered the house and left the people, his disciples asked him about the parable. 18 And he said to them, “Then are you also without understanding? Do you…
If I’m used to holding a child’s hand all day, I could understand how making the transition to holding an adult’s hand for the very first time could feel weird. But perhaps I should get over the transition, and focus on the adult to whom I’m united. Maybe I can adjust to the change by…
This blog exists to promote reflection and conversation on the Christian need to rigorously examine sexuality through biblical lenses. The purpose of Christ-centered ANR is to refute the unbiblical notion that sex must be repressed, even so-called “kinky” expressions of sexuality. I strongly believe Christians can be sex therapists, sex researchers, sex interviewers and sex…
There will always be haters, but we’ll only continue to make progress. The fact that they’re unmarried is to be frowned upon biblically, but I applaud Jennifer Mulford’s courage. Jennifer MulfordThe taboo closet
You can view the video here: TLC’s ‘Strange Sex’ takes on adult breastfeeding (NSFW VIDEO) See also: My name is Jeff, and I drink my wife’s breast milk Jeff and Michelle ‘Strange sex’
A recent conversation with an ANR aspirant precipitated this discussion. In the ANR world, there doesn’t seem to be an easy answer. Even pastors and Christian counselors and healthcare workers become apprehensive about sharing in an effort to bless. Personally, I no longer see that big a deal. When married, should I feel sufficiently close…
See also: Am I twisting Scripture to justify my kinky fetish? A biblical defense of ANRs
I came across an article on some site that revealed that about 1 in 3 American men surveyed have fantasized about breast milk at least once. I’m pretty sure the ratio for women is at least the same because women are MUCH less comfortable expressing or exploring their sexuality, as communicated in the email from…
Note the presupposition in this line of reasoning. The preconceived notion in this argument goes something like: breastfeeding is a special, intimate moment of bonding between mother and child. (That, it certainly is). But it further assumes that it must remain only between mother and child while it need not be confined to that dynamic.…
I once had a Spanish teacher who noticed a small cut below my sideburns. The most caring and open-minded teacher I ever had, he suggested something unusual. Meat tenderizer. I soon gave it a shot. I even recently purchased one that’s seasoned. It’s rather piquant and spicy, so each application feels a bit like I’m…
We are convinced that Satan has been behind the taboo of ANR. If more marriages practiced ANR, I think there would be a lot less divorce. –Pastor E His statement is so good, so spot on, that I had to post it twice. People who have fallen for Satan’s spell of seeing ANR as taboo…
“For many adult breastfeeders, traditional narratives of age or power play doesn’t enter their kink. Those that I spoke to did not mention wanting to feel like a child, or conversely, wanting to feel like a mother. The desire to revert back to childhood—common in adult babies—is also rarely mentioned on any adult breastfeeding sites.…
“Milk that’s originally meant for baby cows? Love it. Milk that’s originally meant for baby goats? Like it. Milk that’s originally meant for baby humans? Ewwwww. WTF?” You can’t have it both ways. If drinking milk that’s originally designed for the young of your own kind is taboo, then a new word ought to be…
The Bible point-blank encourages ANRs but most people find them taboo. This adds to the intimidation one faces when coming out to a partner, family or friends about ANR desire. I don’t get how even believers do this when there’s no clear biblical prohibition against it. I’ve found some ANR skeptics who claim that if…
While watching the Forensic Files recently, I was saddened to see an episode in which an apartment complex handyman – who grew up a pastor’s son – purposely intruded into a female college student’s apartment while she took a shower. As the semester went on, he intruded again and murdered her. While I realize he’s certainly not excused…
I disagree with some of the statements in this TIME magazine article, especially towards the end, but its title and first paragraph alone have earned it a link on this blog. (Caution: While this article is informative, not erotic in nature, it contains some words that may make some readers stumble. Biblical discretion is advised.) Source:…
Knowing the right thing to do and not doing it is like grabbing a sharp object and cutting yourself. -unnamed loved one That can be backed up biblically: “whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin” (James 4:17). The loved one’s quote can be stated as:…
There’s this very useful Christian website based in Colorado. Affiliated with a well-known conservative organization that promotes family values, the site provides many helpful resources to single Christians and young adults and I generally enjoy their gospel-centered articles, but one day, I came across an unhelpful, unforgettable statement that I must call out. If you’re a…
Welcome to our fifth of seven characteristics to help inform your search for an ANR-interested mate: simplicity, nearly synonymous with humility. This one gets a bad rap. There’s even a term that has been coined to mock simple folks. Simplicity in the sense of humility and unpretentiousness is highly looked upon in Scripture, however. Folks who desire an…
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