If God could speak the Universe into existence, create planets and stars billions of times the size of our own, send His only begotten Son to die for your sins, then He’s more than capable of bringing you your ANR partner. Trust His timing. God could easily cause an ANR-desiring spouse to appear the moment you open your front door. He has ordained every moment of your life and wants the best for you.
But our unbelief keeps us wanting to play God, and replacing Him with idols.
Trust Him. He loves you and won’t let you down.