I feel the need to reiterate and emphasize the most crucial ANR traits in both sexes, to aid your search and give you a crystal clear picture of your future ANR mate.
For women, the four traits are being open-minded, nurturing, sensuous and deeply valuing bonding and intimacy much more than most women, and for men, similarly, it’s being open-minded, approachable, sexual/kinky and deeply prizing intimacy and bonding more than most men.
Remember, one can discern these characteristics while keeping it holy.