From conversations during dates, prod for signs of your prospective spouse being too vanilla and straight-laced. Skip those, and instead go for those who are open minded and adventurous. Kinky and sexually adventurous need not be mutually exclusive with godly or holy. What’s kinky vs. vanilla is defined subjectively and culturally. God’s word leaves room…
I’m thinking of every woman who has ever mentioned Couples Nursing in any capacity whatsoever, be it a woman I’ve ever discussed it with, followed on ANR sites, or others on social media who have publicly reacted one way or another to this lifestyle. Of the hundreds of women in this sample space, what has…
Another catch-all phrase to serve my brothers, and to some extent, sisters in Christ. The typical woman who loves ANRs enjoys contributing to the Physical and Emotional Wellbeing of others. Observe her. Does she enjoy showing affection to others? Is she the type who offers emotional support to those in need? Does she like cooking…
India. Japan. China. Brazil. Sure, these places may be slightly more conducive to finding your ANR mate. But allow me to repeat the fact that you should avoid stereotyping or pigeonholing races, ethnicities, nationalities, regions, or cultures into fitting and fulfilling your ANR fantasies. The type of person you pursue matters far more than their…
Single men, don’t focus on physical attributes first. The size of her breasts or any other physical features are secondary. The one thing you should set your mind on that most likely guarantees she’ll want to nurse you till the cows come home is this: she devotes her life to bringing people peace of mind.…
I haven’t met too many men in the ANR world. But the few I’ve met are definitely the type who although masculine and expectedly sexual, are big teddy bears on the inside. The hundreds of women I’ve profiled all share this sweet, tender affectionate trait, and one thing I think male and female alike have…
This week, I had reason to visit a well-known pet retail store. Two of the three employees I saw perfectly fit the female ANR profile, and then some. They were very helpful too, all three going out of their way to assist me. This underscores the fact that ANR-interested women are super soft, affectionate, tactile,…
So some macho men do want ANRs after all, or at least, the critical ingredient of an ANR. But I think they’re the “tough on the outside, soft on the inside” type. According to news sources, some bodybuilders claim breast milk helps build muscle. Male bodybuilders buying expressed milk online isn’t quite an ANR, but…
I’ve noticed some women who are into ANR tend to like things many women find relaxing, like sewing, knitting, home crafts, gardening and sharing recipes. Those typical feminine, beautiful, homey, cozy, relaxing activities and qualities are definitely worth including with the ANR traits.
Just over a year ago, I was on a date with a missionary kid born and raised in a tribal country in the tropical Eastern hemisphere. She had grown up around breastfeeding mothers all her life. Following my M.O., when I finally got to bringing up CN to find out what she thought of it,…
This is the one physical trait all ANR-friendly women have in common. Gentlemen, look for that smooth, rich, tender, creamy, “juicy” skin, with a bit of fatty tissue, of which the owner is very proud and loves having touched. You could tell she loves having it touched by the way she sometimes gives her own…
I now think the greatest factor in determining ANR interest in women isn’t being soft or nurturing but being tactile/sensual. The other two, especially having strong nurturing instincts, matter greatly, but having a body that is very responsive to touch is probably the most important factor, because she has “lady parts” that are very sensitive, beautiful…
Thinking of all the ANR women I’ve known or come across online, I realize that the key trait they all have in common is a love for helping others.
I feel the need to revisit the topic of ANR traits because it’s often modulated by my real life experiences. Men, if there’s one thing you remember about the ANR-interested woman, let it be that she’s soft. Very much so. In every facet you can imagine. The key is to look for signs of extraordinarily…
A few months before starting this blog, when researching ANR traits in women, and a picture of the typical ANR woman begin to take shape in my mind, I noticed many of the ladies that stood out tended to have an exalted, blessed, spiritual and heavenly beauty about them, so my mantra was “aim for…
Obviously, the most important thing to seek in a woman is godly character. But guys, also seek the woman that has soft breasts, not just large ones. The typical woman who really loves Couples Nursing absolutely possesses the most amazingly inviting breasts. A lady can have the largest natural breasts but if they’re too firm, she…
Whoever says he abides in Him ought to walk in the same way in which He walked. – 1 John 2:6 It’s a commonly heard complaint that Christians never practice what they preach. They’re Sunday morning benchwarmers with no tangible acts of Christ’s love. Whoever thinks this way has not met too many ANR-friendly Christians.…
A condensed reminder of how to sense ANR vibes in both women and men, as discussed here and here respectively. Three core things to seek in a woman: she’s very motherly, is sensual and really digs you. In men, the most important traits are probably: him being full of life and being secure enough to be open-minded.…
See A brief description of the ANR-interested man.
What does the typical ANR-desiring woman look like? As I implied here, she tends to have a face that’s average to above average looking. As far as body type goes, there seems to be a prototype, with some significant variety. I have seen some slender ladies that desire this intimacy but the typical woman with strong Couples Nursing…
While I realize I’ve essentially covered all the telltale signs that I believe are indicative of ANR interest in both women and men, due to my profile being slightly geared towards male seekers, it’s probably appropriate to dedicate one post to the thousands of godly ladies who also long for this gift in marriage. There are only three…
Asia is by far the continent that can claim the most Adult Nursing Relationships. This isn’t only because of its large population. It’s primarily because Asians are more ANR-friendly than the rest of the world’s people. I’ve heard of ANRs happening in virtually all nooks and crannies of the continent. A large number of Japanese…
The average woman with ANR interests is 5’5″ or 165 cm tall. This isn’t too big a deal but it’s significant. I might explain what I mean in a future post. Source and method: I randomly selected 200 women from an ANR dating site and found out their average height was literally just a hair…
Rather than always going by all seven qualities plus five bonuses, six seem to work well. The 7 and 5 bonuses are those I’ve noticed from online research, while those below were compiled from actual interactions with women. It’s like theoretical versus experi[enti]al probability- my scientific/statistical readers can relate. All women who were open to my marital ANR…
If a woman meets all seven ARNTSSS criteria, she most likely would enjoy an ANR. If in addition, she has these five below, then she’s likely to crave* an ANR: 1. Endowed. This first bonus characteristic of the female ANR lover seems like the most obvious, and of all physical attributes shared by women on ANR blogs and dating sites,…
We made it to the last characteristic in our profile of the typical ANR lover. I’m referring to the lower case ‘spiritual’ in this context. I’m only using the human definition in the non-biblical sense of being soulful and deep, as not all women with ANR desires are indwelt by God the Spirit, and conversely,…
This is the penultimate trait in our series. Many ANR women are tender, soft-spoken, cuddly, sensitive, gentle, peaceful and unquestionably feminine. They definitely have a soft spot for their husbands. God created women to be softer, more delicate and innate nurturers. These women take pride in their femininity; they naturally and joyfully take hold of divinely established…
Welcome to our fifth of seven characteristics to help inform your search for an ANR-interested mate: simplicity, nearly synonymous with humility. This one gets a bad rap. There’s even a term that has been coined to mock simple folks. Simplicity in the sense of humility and unpretentiousness is highly looked upon in Scripture, however. Folks who desire an…
Number four. ANR women are very affectionate and touchy-feely. In fact, touch is usually the love language they speak most fluently. Their nerves work very well, to God’s glory. They tend to have sensitive and responsive skin and could cuddle from sunrise to sunset. They can’t keep their hands off people they adore and generally…
Women who have this third ANR characteristic enjoy giving of themselves to others. They’re excellent homemakers and great caretakers. They love to cook and bake, in fact many call themselves foodies. Dining was the number three interest on the previously mentioned ANR dating site, almost tied for second place, so look for that traditional, classic woman…
