A condensed reminder of how to sense ANR vibes in both women and men, as discussed here and here respectively.

Two core things to seek in a woman: she’s a very soft mama bear and she really digs you.

In men, the two most important traits are probably: him being full of life and being secure enough to be open-minded.

He’s full of life in the sense of being funny, adventurous, masculine, handsome, and very attracted to women; and he’s open to trying anything God doesn’t condemn, because he’s definitely not the moralistic, prim and proper type who thinks it’s a sin to experiment and spice things up, nor is he the insecure “tough guy.”