My dearest readers, happy 2024. I can’t believe it’s already been ten years since founding this blog.
It’s been a fun yet challenging decade of bringing you the best of Christ-centered ANR. I’ve definitely grown in that span, and hope you have too.
This is to ten, twenty and thirty more years of blogging, friendships, weddings and lots of Christ-centered nursing.
To the next decade!🥂
By far my greatest moment of vulnerability since establishing this blog nine years ago. Due to a cycle of having improper covenants with my eyes and seeking an Ancient Asia-like, well-supervised wet nursing situation, over the past three weeks, I’ve noticed three people who appeared to be stalking me. One was particularly worrisome, and made me think the end was imminent. These incidents are not directly related to this blog, but our enemies and our chief enemy would be delighted to see Christ-centered ANR gone.
I have solemnly vowed to God that I’ll fight my lust from now on and would NEVER seek a premarital wet nursing relationship ever again, no matter how many supervisory witnesses are present. It’s not worth the mortal risk.
Thanks for your prayers, so I can live to serve you for decades to come.
I’ve stated before that one major objection I’ve gotten to the idea of promoting Christian ANRs is that the Bible never places as much an emphasis on it as I do. But those who level such accusations never take the time to consider the whole counsel of God.
A related example is the fact that I know multiple professing Christians who struggle with confidence and assertiveness. One went further to describe his desire to avoid being prideful. He makes a good point, and his desire for humility is commendable.
But the indisputable fact is that God commands us to be confident and assertive. It’s explicit in verses like 2 Timothy 1:7 and implicit throughout Scripture. God wants believers to be unafraid of any mortals, and bold enough to look a bully in the eye to compel them to change their behavior.
In Exodus, Moses and Aaron fearlessly confronted Pharaoh and told him God says “let my people go.”
David confronted Goliath with smooth stones and a slingshot.
Peter and John confronted the Sanhedrin, letting them know they’ll obey God rather than man.
Paul confronted his Jewish opponents, false apostles, Roman governors and leaders.
It’s absolutely unquestionable. God uses confident and fearless believers to perform his mighty acts of salvation. Being confident, assertive and fearless is clearly commanded throughout God’s word, sometimes explicitly, but very often tacitly.
As Christians, we’ve waived our rights and desires and submitted them to Christ. But there’s nothing wrong with having desires, or graciously asserting our rights. When dealing with their adversaries, Paul and Jesus knew and firmly insisted on their rights. Knowing one’s rights for salvific purposes is encouraged in scripture, e.g. when Paul asserted his status as a Roman citizen after he was flogged without trial (Acts 22:25, 16:37), and when Jesus firmly defended himself from accusations of blasphemy in John 5:17. This article offers great biblical insights on assertiveness and self-defense.
Similarly, that God wants couples to be as close and intimate as humanly possible cannot be overstated. It’s clear from passages like Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:22-33, Proverbs 5, Song of Solomon and 1 Corinthians 7. It’s also implicitly commanded in several passages like Genesis 1:28, 9:7, Deuteronomy 24:5, Psalm 128:3, Proverbs 6 and 7, Matthew 28:20, 1 Thessalonians 4:3 and many others.
Since God knows our nature and tendency to abuse his gifts, he carefully, and repeatedly, commands us to use these gifts — only for gospel purposes. I think he avoids making an explicit emphasis on these commands because he knows most of us tend to run to the other extreme.
The whole counsel of God considered, I think it’s abundantly clear God exhorts us to do lots of nursing in marriage.
The creation account is found in Genesis 1—2. Most of God’s creative work is done by speaking, another indication of the power and authority of His Word. Let us look at each day of God’s creative work:
Creation Day 1 (Genesis 1:1–5)
God created the heavens and the earth. “The heavens” refers to everything beyond the earth, outer space. The earth is made but not formed in any specific way, although water is present. God then speaks light into existence. He then separates the light from the dark and names the light “day” and the dark “night.”
Creation Day 2 (Genesis 1:6–8)
God creates the sky. The sky forms a barrier between water upon the surface and the moisture in the air. At this point earth would have an atmosphere.
Creation Day 3 (Genesis 1:9–13)
God creates dry land. Continents and islands are above the water. The large bodies of water are named “seas” and the ground is named “land.” God declares that all this is good.
God creates all plant life both large and small. He creates this life to be self-sustaining; plants can reproduce. The plants were created in great diversity (many “kinds”). The earth was green and teeming with plant life. God declares that this work is also good.
Creation Day 4 (Genesis 1:14–19)
God creates all the stars and heavenly bodies. The movement of these will help man track time. Two great heavenly bodies are made in relation to the earth. The first is the sun, which is the primary source of light, and the moon, which reflects the light of the sun. The movement of these bodies will distinguish day from night. This work is also declared to be good by God.
Creation Day 5 (Genesis 1:20–23)
God creates all life that lives in the water. Any life of any kind that lives in the water is made at this point. God also makes all the birds. The language allows that this may be the time God made flying insects as well; if not, they were made on Day 6. All these creatures are made with the ability to perpetuate their species by reproduction. The creatures made on Day 5 are the first creatures blessed by God. God declares this work good.
Creation Day 6 (Genesis 1:24–31)
God creates all the creatures that live on dry land. This includes every type of creature not included on previous days and man. God declares this work good.
When God was creating man, He took counsel with Himself. “God said, ‘Let us make man in our image, in our likeness’” (Genesis 1:26). This is not an explicit revelation of the Trinity but is part of the foundation for such, as God reveals an “us” within the Godhead. God makes man, and man is made in the image of God (men and women both bear this image) and is special above all other creatures. To emphasize this, God places man in authority over the earth and over all the other creatures. God blesses man and commands him to reproduce, fill the earth, and subdue it (bring it under the rightful stewardship of man as authorized by God). God announces that man and all other creatures are to eat plants alone. God will not rescind this dietary restriction until Genesis 9:3–4.
God’s creative work is complete at the end of the sixth day. The entire universe in all its beauty and perfection was fully formed in these six periods labeled as “days.” At the completion of His creation, God announces that it is very good.
Creation Day 7 (Genesis 2:1–3)
God rests. This in no way indicates He was weary from His creative efforts; rather, it denotes that the creation is complete. Further, God is establishing a pattern of one day in seven to rest. The keeping of this day will eventually be a distinguishing trait of God’s chosen people, Israel (Exodus 20:8–11).
Many Christians interpret these “days” as literal, 24-hour periods, a position called Young-Earth Creationism. It should be noted that certain interpretations of these “days” suggest they were indeterminate periods of time. Day-Age Theory and Historical Creationism are two theories that interpret the biblical data in a way that allows for an older earth. Regardless, the events and accomplishments of each “day” are the same.
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Your milk won’t be the only uniquely feminine fluid you produce that I enjoy consuming frequently.
I don’t believe in half-stepping. As Christ displayed his total commitment when he died to save me wholly, comprehensively and totally, I also want all of you.
Sometimes, nipple alone would do. Other times, as much of the breast as is humanly possible.
I’d like your breasts to be husband-smotherable. It’s more beautiful and worthwhile if I can be buried so deeply in them, you sometimes deprive me of oxygen.
I’ll stick my tongue as far as it’ll go.
I will drink you down to your dregs.
Conversely, I also can’t keep my hands off my woman who I adore.
During feeding sessions, I’d make sure at least one hand is always on you. I’ll stay stroking the other breast, your arms, face, torso or other parts that give you pleasure and joy.
I’ll listen to your needs and respond well to your desires.
I’ll drain your engorged breasts and let you drown away all my weariness and worries from a long, difficult day.
For is there a better way to be eased and soothed from rigorous job demands, strenuous occupational hazards and stresses than coming home to a comforting wife who puts in her best efforts to maintain a nourishing and delicious surplus of milk? I’ll show my deep appreciation of your hardwork by putting my hand where it counts.
I’ll make you fall asleep to my soothing, comforting caresses.
I’ll put your needs above mine. You’ll be in ecstasy.
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The fact that an ANR is barely mentioned in the Bible implicitly conveys that the mission of this blog never has been to reveal some central tenet of the Christian faith that has somehow been undiscovered for ages.
This is only one man’s blog. It is not church, nor can it replace your daily Bible reading.
All content on Christ-centered ANR is written to enhance your marriage, not to replace the One who died for you.
Your soul is in need of Jesus Christ above all, not Couples Nursing. Christ alone is your hope in life and death.
See also: Read your Bible more than this blog
Intended for mature readers only (as is everything on Christ-centered ANR).
*I once asked a woman on ANRSpace how she discovered Couples Nursing. Her response was: One day when fooling around with my boyfriend, I suddenly began lactating. I’ve been hooked ever since. You can reach me privately at [her email address]. (I didn’t email her. Didn’t think she was saved). So it can and does happen to some women. Therefore, woman who’s quick to lactate + man with extra strong suckle = almost instantaneous milk flow.
**As mentioned here, ANR-friendly men can be extremists, but it’s the good kind. The controlled and targeted kind, the kind of extremism that attacks a wife’s clitoris with loving ferocity, or attacks a creep trying to prey on children. Virtually every one of the handful of ANR-friendly men I know possesses this loving, laser-pointed, well-managed and well-controlled extremism.
***See Surprise finding in response to nipple stimulation for the relationship between nipple stimulation and clitoral pleasure.
“For I resolved to know nothing … except Jesus Christ and him crucified.”
– 1 Corinthians 2:2
Further reading:
What Does It Mean to Know Nothing except Christ and Him Crucified?
FROM R.C. Sproul
Happy new year.
I ocasionally browse through the web to see what’s new in the ANR world, and whether some immodest sites show signs of moving in a family-friendly direction, and I was happy to see my post “A biblical defense of ANRs” reposted almost in its entirety on an ANR site that’s definitely NSFW and NSFCW (Not Safe For your Christian Walk).
Praise God that the light of His Word shines into non-Christian environments. May God increase the number of Christians in this lifestyle so we can be Christ’s ambassadors to every area of human interest and activity.
“There is so much information!! You are helping so many people!!! I do believe that I have visited [your blog] before, with the intention to come back and read when I had time. I’m sorry that I didn’t do it sooner!”
— testimonial from Christ-centered ANR reader
Christ-centered ANR just won’t stop growing. I owe this blog’s success to all you devoted readers, and God who makes it all possible.
Happy 2018.
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Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. KJV
Christ-centered ANR just keeps growing and growing and growing. All glory be to God.
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