Postpartum or postnatal depression is major depression some women experience after childbirth1, 2. It can eliminate a woman’s natural desire to bond with her infant3, along with the urge to nurse. In fact, when it sets in, it’s often detrimental to breastfeeding.4 Rather than face such familial agony, I propose a better way to resolve…
“May God give you a righteous wife who will be your fountain of blessing.” — email I received from an ANR-desiring Christian wife some time ago Women who partake in this intimate lifestyle don’t view it as babying their husbands or fetishizing breastfeeding in any way whatsoever. They see it as a way to bless…
I recently heard a sermon on Galatians 5 and 6. The pastor noted how the fruit produced by the tree isn’t for the tree, but is meant to serve others. This mirrors the heart of God, who for our sake, made him who knew no sin to be sin, so in him, we might be…
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“…cleanse my soul of the pollution… Need water give me hydration… Find the heavens in your silhouette… U got my blood going Ain’t felt nothing natural as this… So Cleopatra let down your long hair… Vanilla almond coconut accent… Don’t need a crystal ball to know at all it’d be a cold world without a…
I came across this tidbit and attribute it to my belief that God has wired women to be about rest, renew, reset, recuperate, refresh, rejuvenate.
*based on female anatomical references to “cheq,” Strong’s Hebrew 2436, meaning “bosom” “Then Naomi took the child and laid him on her bosom, and became a nurse to him.” Ruth 4:16 “So she arose in the middle of the night and took my son from my side, while your maidservant slept, and laid him in…
* based on “shad,” Strong’s Hebrew 7699 and 7699a, and “shod,” Strong’s Hebrew 7699b, meaning “breasts” and “female breasts” respectively, “dad,” Strong’s Hebrew 1717, meaning “breasts, teat, nipple,” “μαστός (mastos),” Strong’s Greek 3149, meaning “The breast, pap” and “θηλάζω (thélazó),” Strong’s Greek 2337, meaning “I give suck, to nurse, to suckle, to suck.” “by the…
Women are more commitment- and family-oriented than men. In fact, I’d argue that innate wiring is precisely one of the greatest things that draws them to this relationship. I’ve heard multiple ANR women stress the importance of finding the right man, to whom they enjoy unrestricted access, prior to bringing in the milk, because of…
Tomboyishness versus femininity can only be ascertained through conversation. Yes, you can see signs of both from afar in some women, but looks can be deceptive. ANR desire is more about who a person is on the inside than external attributes. The spirit is more important than the shell. So men, I’d exhort you to…
Besides genuine faith in the risen Christ, if there’s one thing you seek in a woman, let it be altruistic tenderness. That’s your sure bet of finding an ANR-friendly wife.
For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God, being put to death in the flesh but made alive in the spirit. 1 Peter 3:18 Women are often loyal to, suffer for and care about others more than themselves. They fiercely defend and protect the…
O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the city that kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to it! How often would I have gathered your children together as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, and you were not willing! Luke 13:34
How Christ’s blood was, spiritually speaking, transfused into sinful human veins, is modeled by the way a wife, as an image bearer of Christ, transfers her life- and health-giving milk into her husband’s digestive system. The medical field has many parallels to Christianity, and to ANR. Like Christ saved his Bride’s life eternally, she seriously…
ANR-seeking woman: “I just like how it feels. And I like the idea of my breasts being full of milk.” K, ANR-seeking Christian woman: “[I’m looking for a] man who comes home from a long day of work filled with stress and the worries and frustrations of the day and seeks my full, milky breasts…
36 When one of the Pharisees invited Jesus to have dinner with him, he went to the Pharisee’s house and reclined at the table. 37 A woman in that town who lived a sinful life learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee’s house, so she came there with an alabaster jar of perfume. 38 As she…
25 On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” 26 “What is written in the Law?” he replied. “How do you read it?” 27 He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your…
Years ago, I posted an admonition to think of large breasts as a bonus, as ANR desire is independent of bra size. Notwithstanding this apprisal, I’ve very recently been made aware of my systemic bias against smaller-chested women, which I suspect many other ANR men hold. This bias isn’t so much because I’m a man…
The external article below perfectly supports my thesis that God designed women to breastfeed forever. See Feminine distinctives, where I made that point. “In reproductive physiology, lactation follows pregnancy. In traditional populations, children continue to breastfeed for 3 to 4 years, suggesting that sustained lactation is the biological norm. However, cultural norms are markedly different;…
Abstracts: AACR Special Conference: Improving Cancer Risk Prediction for Prevention and Early Detection; November 16-19, 2016; Orlando, FL Abstract In reproductive physiology, lactation follows pregnancy. In traditional populations, children continue to breastfeed for 3 to 4 years, suggesting that sustained lactation is the biological norm. However, cultural norms are markedly different; while breastfeeding rates in…
Breast cancer is the most common cause of cancer death among women and it is one of the leading causes of death among women. Factors that appear to be implicated in decreasing the risk of breast cancer are regular breast examinations by health care professionals, regular mammograms, self-examination of breasts, healthy diet, and exercise to decrease…
Many women regard their breasts as important to their sexual attractiveness, as a sign of femininity that is important to their sense of self. A woman with smaller breasts may regard her breasts as less attractive. Source: Breast Size Perception and Satisfaction, Body Image, and Psychological Functioning in Caucasian and Asian American College Women, by Elissa Koff & Amy Benavage, https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/A:1018802928210…
From an ANR group: Inducing is all about making the brain think there’s a baby to feed. It requires 15-20 minutes every 3-4 hours of pumping, suckling, massage, or a TENS unit. It took me 4 months of pumping to have milk. I got impatient and ordered dom, then it only took me 2 weeks.…
God, by nature, is a self-giver. Women, by nature, are also self-givers. Women’s bodies were created to give life, and their personalities and characters also align with this self-giving mission. Research shows over and over that if women and girls are invested in, they tend to reinvest in their communities and those near and dear.…
Breast milk is packed with antibodies IgG, IgA, IgM, IgD and IgE, which are secretory IgA molecules that combat diseases without causing inflammation. I dedicate this to the men “who know the value of breast milk for our immune system, anti-aging theories, etc. Plus – its just fun to suckle and cuddle and relax in the…
In Helper by Design: God’s Perfect Plan for Women in Marrage, Elyse Fitzpatrick presents two extreme and opposing views some Christian women hold about what differentiates them from men. One view sees them as completely different from men in every way, while on the other end of the spectrum is the assertion that women are…
Most of this conversation took place in April 2020. Warning: Mature content. This post is only intended to provide insight into a woman’s perspective of the very intimate aspects of Couples Nursing, and the effects they have on her sexual response. It should lead us to marvel at God and how He created women’s bodies.…
I’m thinking of every woman who has ever mentioned Couples Nursing in any capacity whatsoever, be it a woman I’ve ever discussed it with, followed on ANR sites, or others on social media who have publicly reacted one way or another to this lifestyle. Of the hundreds of women in this sample space, what has…
Abstract Oxytocin is clearly involved in human reproduction and serves an important role in sexual arousal. Oxytocin serum levels were measured before and after sexual stimulation in 12 healthy women. Values of oxytocin 1 min after orgasm were significantly higher (p < 0.05) than baseline levels. This finding supports the hypothesis that oxytocin plays a major…
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